Sunday, March 21, 2010

How Love Can Survive Prison Walls

Believe it or not, love can survive, even if your husband, boyfriend or lover is in prison. My husband and I are prime examples, and not only has ourlove survived, but it has grown stronger with each passing day...with each beat of our hearts. I like the saying, "we are 2 hearts that beat as one."

My husband has been within the prison system for the past 23 months. We have benn married for 4 years, of which 23 months we have been seperated by prison walls. But we have proven that "love prevails," and not even prison walls can keep us apart!

"How do you both do it?" you may ask. It is easy, and in this article, I hope to give you a few basic tips.

First of all, it does help to be madly "in love" with each other! Then, the rest becomes easy!

1. Keep in close contact by the phone. As most prison wives know, prison calls are highly expensive. If you are able to, accept those collect calls. If you are not capable of it, keep in close contact through the mail. I send my husband letters, computer print-outs of articles and information he is interested in, newspaper clippings. I keep manilla envelopes at home and throughout the week I slip things of interest into the envelope...Then I make at least one, if not more trips to the post office to mail letters and envelopes to him. At my post-office I am a well- known face for the past 23 months!

2. Send him lots of cards for holidays, and other times. It helps me to not only think of him while looking for "that perfect card," but he enjoys receiving them, and often shows them to the fellow inmates. Remember that "mail-time' is a very important time of the day when in prison. Some guys never even receive mail...it is almost a game or competition with the guys as how much mail they receive....The inmates would always joke around with my husband that his wife was going to cause the mailroom to 'close,' as I was sending him so much mail.
.....Valentine's day is a few days away...I have sent several cards to my husband, and he has sent me 7 cards!....if there are times he cannot buy cards, he makes his own, which are very special to me.

3. Photos...I keep photos of my husband throughout the house...in the bedroom, living room, and kitchen...In the beginning I would go to the refridgerator and hug it, where his picture was...I would talk to his picture. I also carry a pix of the both of us, with our dog , on my keychain. When he first went to prison, I mailed him at least close to 100 pictures of us. He was able to put them in photo albums and he would happily show his pix to the other guys. And yes, my hubby would sleep with those photo books under his pillow, he missed me so much.

4. Share your thoughts, feelings, and emotions on the phone. Tell him if you are lonely...or even angry....it is ok to be honest. After all, your husband is in prison, and you are allowed to feel what you feel.....but most of all, tell him you "love him." ...a little "love talk" will get you through those lonely days and nights.

5. Daydream about your husband. Think abotu those past days with him, and think about how the future will be when he gets home. Yes, daydream, and at night dream...and imagine he is still there next to you at night...Think about each other, as much as you can!

6. Keep the household together while he is gone. Also, do something for yourself, to make you a better person...for example, take a college course, or go to adult school...get involved in church activities...join the choir!..do volunteer work, at the hospital or nursing home...try to put a little sunshine in the lives of others...try not to concentrate on the difficulties you are going through at this time...

7. Look forward to the future, and know that you are getting there, even though it is one step at a time. Be strong and positive that your love will survive......For us, it is easy, because, "we love each other very much...and that is simply that...prison or not"!

I hope this article has made your day a little more positive, and that I helped you through another day....Happy Valentine's Day!.........and don't forget to tell your husband, lover, boyfriend, or whoever else is in your life, "I love you."...Those are 3 very important words!

I am a 51 year old woman, who got married 4 years ago to the "man of my dreams!" I married him knowing fully well he had committed a crime and woud have to serve time in prison. But love does survive, even the toughest of times. I am a retired Registered Nurse, who is now legally blind, and enjoys doing "free-lance writing" at home. I want to make people happy and strong through my "written word."

When you get a chance, please visit my journal, called "Reflections of a prison wife". It is the day to day life of me, a woman whose husband is in the prison system. See just what it is like: the ups, the downs, the laughter, the tears... I have been writing the journal for over a year now, and it has become quite popular: http://JOURNALS.AOL.COM/CRYSTALMOON222/REFLECTIONSOFAPRISONWIFE/

702 comments:

  1. Thank you for giving me some HOPE. I LOVE MY HUSBANDso much. Wehave been married for 3 yrs now. But together for 5 years. I shake my head with the mistakes he made but GOD IS IN CONTROL OF THAT. I can only love him, write him and standby his side. Thanks again for giving me hope. Now I know I WILL survive any sentence he gets. He is my life mate and as they say FOR BETTER OR WORSE. Knowing I've been loved by such a special man makes me happy and willing to endure the time. As God says THIS TOO SHALL PAST and it will.

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    1. Hi my husband is currently sitting in jail in dekalb county in GA for something he did way back when he had a bench warrant and his brother told us to come down that the warrant had been dropped and that everything was going to be okay well when we got here 2 weeks later they were walking to the BP gas station right down the street at 2 in the morning and a white cop stopped them and ran their names and his warrant came up and now he is in jail been there for a month almost and still has not had a court date what do I do I am so depressed and I am so lost without him and I don't have any family down here

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    2. When I came to prophet harry, I was feeling lost and confused about matters, and my lover departing from me was completely driving me crazy. I was actually debating whether or not I should have a spell cast on him to bring him back, considering the past spell castings from other casters were general failure. 3 days of contacting prophet I became confident that prophet is the real spell caster, he actually did the love spell on my lover and my lover came home back , and I began to noticed difference changes in lover. he feel more assertive, and positive about things. I can assure you folks, , prophetharry@ymail.com is willing to work with you on a budget, and will make sure that you get the results you want and need, I will definitely come back in the future.

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    3. YOU NEED TO KNOW THAT God is who you trust in and go to when you want uour prayers answered,you do not go to voo doo doctors and witch doctors and people that pretend to play Gods and claim to have magical powers.These people dont care about you and thwy only want your money.What ever a person is gonna do,their gonna do itand noone has the power or theabiliry to do this.Sorry you belive in that stuff

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    4. Anna, I want to give testimony of how CHIFE OGWA brought back my divorce husband back to me,were married for 9 years then we break up, due to the fact that he never love me again.i have many felling for this my ex because we have gotten 2 kids together and i will want us to come back again. but all way i tried for us to come back all went in vain. i was confused and sad because i needed him back into my life, so i divided to contact CHIFE OGWA, i never believe in spell casting i just decide to make an effort and see if something can come out of it. i contacted them and they told me that they needed to cast return back of love to him, they did the spell and after 2 week my ex called that he still love me and wanted us to be together again,what surprise me most was that he was married to another woman, and after the spell casting he divorce the woman for me that same week. it was the spell i cast on him that brought him back again. we later got married again and now the kids are happy that their father is back to their mother again, i telly thank this CHIFE OGWA for bringing back my ex husband to me. i want you my fellow women who want back their divorce husband to contact CHIFE OGWA for his return, do not lose hope you can make this great step as i did then your ex husband will come back to you. and also your ex wife too okay, his email address id is chifeogwa@yahoo.com, i want you to contact him and he will solve your problem for you and also he can do any kind of spell you want to cast

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    5. Well my story is a little different. Yes LOVE does endure all but I was not prepared mentally nor physically for the challenges of being with someone behind bars. We dated before his sentence broke up and me being the kind hearted person I am would write to make sure he was okay, send him a few dollars etc. Well to my suprise we both fell in love with eachother. He is currently doing a 12yr sentence. Of that he has to do 10yrs 3mos. it has now been a lil over 6 years and everyone but myself and his mother have turned their back on him. I held strong for the first two years and then got so lonely forgot about the touch of a man. I cheated I was honest to him about this. But I can say we have been on a journey I never expected to go through! It is hard to date someone in prison when you are truly in love and know that that is the one you want to be with as I get called stupid and all sorts not that it bothers me, I am a strong person. Although the strongest of females can be tested and tried if the person they love has to ever do an extended stay in prison! I wish nothing but joy and happiness to those that are in similar situations and contact and involvement matter so much. I write everyday and when the prison is not on lock down I visit. Although he was shipped 5 hours away and has not had any visitation for the past 2 years! Sucks but thats the prison system for you! Thank you for allowing me to post my story! God Bless!

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    6. Hi Amber I am going through the same thing myself. The love of my life has 5 yrs and a few months left. Its nice to know that i am not the only one out there going through the same deal.

      -Brooke0579@gmail.com

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  2. I never imagined in a million years that I would find my soul mate and he would be sent away for 2 years... This is the hardest thing I have ever faced. I love him so much but I'm afraid that he may need me now but when he gets out will he feel the same. So I'm staying with him but preparing for the worst I dunno whats worst the time or wondering what will happen after... Sad Sad Sad

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    1. My situation is very similar. If anyone would like to reach out and email me I would greatly appreciate it. I have nobody in my life that I can turn to. Timbbey@yahoo.com

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    2. hello every one i have just met with this prophetharry@ymail. com and i finally find out that he is really a truthful spell caster and so powerful and he is the most powerful spell caster that i have ever met. i wish i have met him before. my husband have just come back to me and every thing happened just the way prophet harry had said it i am so happy that i have met with prophet harry and now i have my husband back to my self. if you all that are here have not tried prophet harry just have to do so and get your heart desires fulfilled. stop been doubting i have tested him and i am now a fulfilled woman. sidney huster

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  3. My husband and I have been part of each others lives since the day I was born, his mom and mine have been best friends over 40 years and we got involved romantically when I was 17, he asked my parents permission to marry me and they said no due to the fact he is 9 years my senior, told him I had my life ahead of me ( I had no idea he even asked) then he left back to our birth state, 1000 miles away. We had contact over the next 15 years on and off but I was cold, I thought he just left and didn't want me. He recently moved back a year and a half ago and told me he never stopped loving me, then I learned the truth about the past, and we got back together, turns out one night US Marshals show up at my house, he was a wanted man, he got in trouble 10 years ago and served some years, he was out on parole and a year and a half later he walked off and came back to Alabama. He owes the state of violation 3 years and 4 months, I have no idea how much of that he will have to serve yet, but they took him away, and he is here in our county jail waiting to see if they will come get him. They have had a week and 4 days and it feels like forever, he has signed his extradition papers. We just have to see if they want him or not. Then if the come get him we have to see what time he is looking at. This is going to be a true test on us, for the last year and a half, I'm the happiest I have been in a long time. And I pray every night they won't take him from me and he will be released. He has kept his nose clean and says with me he has a reason to be good, he has a family to come home to. I just hope we can make it! We write every day and phone calls 2x a week and visitation on Saturday, but if he is extradited I won't have that option to see him as often being 1000 miles away, 20 hour drive, pray all goes well and he will be home mid December.

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    1. I have just gone through a difficult break-up a few months ago. Every thing was upside down. I had been dating a girl for about seven months who I thought was the greatest person I could ever be with. When we broke up she said she was unsure of whether I was the one. I felt like my whole life is over but as I was searching for help on the net I found one forum, which recommend prophetharry@ymail.com. I was skeptic at first but I just decided to give it a try, holy molly the results were more than I expected. Here is what happened, instantly girlfriend called on phone and after 1 week she came back to me in tears and promised never to live again since then i have feel so relaxed and forget my pain. I'm freaking happy
      Mishima Nakamura Kitakyushu, Japan

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    2. prophet harry is a scam artist so please ignore him. I would like to know why are you wasting your time ,and young life with an older man that is in and out of prison and is only gonna bring you down in the long run.

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  4. I've supported, loved, and given all I can to the man I love that got sent away. Now almost a year later he tells me that the only Chrismas present he would want is for me to come visit him so we could embbrase. BUT, when I get there he tells me he's been "curiouse" about being with other women when he gets released. Here I'm on the outside, with every means to be with anyone I choose, but I love him so much, I remain faithful. I've never felt "curiouse" about being with someone else. Can anyone relate to what I'm going through? Why would he say this to me? After all the I love yous and I miss you so much, what made this come to his mind? Please help me to understand!!!!

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    1. he past eight months, I've tried different ways to change the way I feel, like going out with the girls, talk on the phone, read on forums but I was still hurt.. having those scars and every time I'm alone. I tend to remember my ex boyfriend. I just couldn't feel happy until I bought this spell from one prophetharry@ymail.com, just few days later I was able to get my boyfrind back and forget all those bad memories. I'm now in a new relationship with him, now he loves me so much I can't imagine why I wasted my time feeling bad.
      ErikaRobinson New Plymouth, New Zealand

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    2. Prophet harry is a scam artist so ignore him..First of all your man told you he is curious about relationships with other women...you gotta be very naive and slow to not comprehend what he has said to you...He is telling you he wants to see other women when he is out.he is letting you know ahead of time...basically this dude is lying to you and using you and telling you all the things you need and want to hear and chances are you are not the only woman he is talking to,and telling lies too.Wake up woman for you get your heart ripped out.Learn to love you and to put you first.

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    3. hi my partner just got locked up and im with him for to years and i love him to bits, i said it to him befor he went away, wat if he didnt want to be wit me when he came out, and he said that wont happen, i think that coz thay are locked up they relize that they only have one life, and they are only thinkin about themself, , and if he did that to me its means he did not love me as much as i love him, , if things weir bad befor he went in it means it wont last very long iin the future, or he met someone else befor he went to prison

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  5. I have been married for 3 years and my husband has been in jail for the last 2 years. He will be released in 2 months and i am very nervous. The reason why i am so nervous is bc he had cheated on me before it was time for him to go in and do his time. I feel as though i forgave him but i am not really sure. He cryed and begged for me to forgive him, and he said he wasnt going to do it again. I love him so much,we have two kids together. I stuck by his side and i never missed a visit...i just dont know what to do.

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    1. If you and your husband were married for three years and he cheated on you,went to jail for 2years and is getting out in two months do you honestly believe that he is gonna be faithful?First of all he did not even give the marriage a chance or your love a chance.this man is clearly for self and as long as you stay with him you are headed for alot of heartache and pain.

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  6. OMG!!!!! I FEEL SO SORRY 4 U....I CAN JUST IMAGINE HOW U FEEL...IS THAT UR BOYFRIEND OR YOUR HUBBY? I GUESS IT REALLY DOES NOT MATTER HE SHOULD NOT HAVE SAID THAT 2 U...

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  7. Thank you for your response, but the first letter I received from him, when I got back home, was a letter to me like he didn't even know why or what he said that made me so "insecure". Believe me, my letter to him in return was just as "brutally" honest with him about my feelings as he was to me when I went to visit him last. Then his next letter appologized to me for his mistake of putting doubts in my head about his love for me. Then another letter came letting me know he moved to another unit close to the dayroom where they have the T.V. on 24/7 and slam domminos constantly and it hot and smells. Plus he noted, without hearing from me he's really gone down hill. He told me the only woman he wants to make love to when he comes home to is me, he doesn't want to go out there and screw every female he can. In other words he wants my forgiveness and I don't know if I can. Is this just "prison talk" for the fear of coming home to no one? Or does anyone out there feel what he's telling me now is a desprate move, in order for me not to leave him? Anyone with some good advice?????

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    1. He is using sympathy tactics to keep you from leaving him.Let me just tell you sonething and this goes out to all women fallen,waiting and marrying prisoners.MEN DONT WAIT ON WOMEN,WOMEN WAIT ON MEN.THIS IS A FEMALE THING..IF A WOMAN WAS IN JAIL DO YOU THINK THAT MAN WOUL WRITE YOU,PUT MONEY INTO YOUR ACCOUNT,VISIT YOU,AND REMAIN FAITHFUL?HELL NO...SO WHY ARE YOU BEAUTIFUL WOMEN WASTING TIME,ENERGY,MONEY ON MEN THAT DIDNT EVEN GIVE THEIR LIFE A CGANCE AND NOT JUST THAT,BUT ARE GONNA DISAPPEAR ONCE THEY ARE OUT OR ARE GONNA CHEAT BECAUSE ONE THING YOU MUST REALIZE IS NO MAN WANTS A DESPERATE,NEEDY,OR WEAK WOMAN OR A WOMAN WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM AND EVEN THOUGH HE TELLS YOU HE LOVES YOU,GIVES YOU ARTS AND CRAFTS DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU REALLY ARE THE WOMAN OF HIS DREAMS.WHY BECAUSE HE IS LOCKED UP AND HAS NO OTHER OPTIONS AND KNOWS THAT THOSE FINE,INDEPENDENT,BEAUTIFUL,SEXY,WOMEN DO NOT WANT THEIR BUTTS IN THAT POSITION BUT THE GULLABE,NEVER HAD A MAN THAT LOVES THEM,LOW SELF ESTEEM HAVING,OBESE,NOT SO ATTRACTIVE, NEEDY WOMEN DO WANT THEM.SO THEY PLAY ON THIS,TELL THEM SWEET NOTHINGS AND ONCCE THEY ARE OUT,THEY KIE CHEAT STEAL FROM YOU UNTIL THEY EVENTUALLY LEAVE,START DOING GOOD IN THEIR KIVES AND THEN..POOF! THEY LEAVE YOU BECAUSE DEEP DOWN YOU ARE NOT WHAT THEY WANT.

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  8. GIRLFRIEND, HE IS DEFIINITTELY SSPINNING YOU! DON'T KNOW MAN COMING HOME FROM PRISON KNOW EXACTLY WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN.

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  9. Only time will tell good luck to all of you that's facing the same situation that I am

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  10. January 9th "Anonymous"........When you mean sspinning me, exactly what do you mean? Something like -he doesn't know what he wants, and since he doesn't know, there's no way for me to know what he wants either?
    However, I've had a crush on a guy on my block for about 1 year. We became pretty good friends, but then one night "it" happened. However, "the crush", in the past had told me, when we first became friends, he didn't want to be in a relationship. But when we started becoming closer (or so I thought), and the night "it" happened, I told him I would only go through with it if we were going to start something together because I'm a one man girl. Basically I told him I was ready to let my fiance if we were to go all the way. Well pretty quickly after that night, of course like every other man, his attitude changed. He said that he never said that about starting something sexual up with him that I would end my relationship with my fiance (my feances the one in jail). Making a long story short he repeated what he told me the first time we hung out, "He doesn't want a relationship".
    The suprising thing that happened was I realized all the good qualities my fieance has, and the ugly things the guy down the street (my crush) would say to me. Things my fieance would never say or do. Yes I definitely am sspinning out over this whole thing. Should I tell my fiance what I did? Or, should I wait till he gets home to explain to him what went on? Or never say anything? Please please give me some feedback! Thanks

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    1. Don't tell him yet , wait to he come home cheat on you , you find out ... Then tell him ...

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    2. Honey you are seriously lacking love for self in your life.You are flipping back and forth with these two mean and your emotions are haywire all over the place.You need to evaluate yourself fasy.you sound like a hot mess.seriously.The Fiance in prison is not stupid enoigh to say anything out the way to you while in prison,but i will tell you this neither of these guys love,or want you...why because you dont love you.

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  11. My fiance is in jail for misdemeanor larceny. He admitted he'd done it, owned up to it and took his sentence with a great attitude. I would not consider or even think about being with another person. Comittment is taken so lightly nowadays. I pass the time living life as if he were here, play with the kids, visit with family, pay bills, go shopping..my only guilty pleasure is cooking all the foods he hates lol..we talk as often as possible, write almost daily. Its not that hard, its lonely, but bearable.

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  12. My boyfriend is in jail for 6 years! and i'm definetly going to wait it out! not cause i'm desperate just because your soul mate only comes once in a life time! and he did a mistake he should have not done, but i wont abandon him .. i'm just going to finish school i'm almost done, i will have my bachelors in Nursing(RN) we dont have any kids together yet. but when he comes home i will be 26.. and he will be too soo yea only the future will tell.

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    1. yea I waited 4 yrs he said all the wonderful things to me until he got out started treating me bad talking to his X all the time looking at every!!!women he saw anywhere like they were candy. I was true loving loyal he is a lyier cheater and a thief. a true waste of time

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  13. I have fallen in love with a guy who is in jail. At first i thought maybe it was a prank but he bacame more serious and now i think im falling for him. Im 26yrs old and im a professional working lady. This guy sent me a request via one of the social networks, he went through all of my photos & so he claims that from seeing those pics he just knew that he loved me and even though he knew it was hard to approach me but he did anyway! after reading all the stories above im really confused. He told me he heard a fiance before he was arrested but she cheated on him/ didnt wait for him and she moved on with her life. I love this guy but i dont know if i could trust him. what if he just want somebody to come home to when he's being released in 8months time?? does anybody relate to this??

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    1. Dont be a fool and be yet another statistic of the prisoner syndromw.This guy wilk suck you in,tell you your all rge woman he needs,write you poetey,tell you hes innocent or that he made a mistake,tell you your his soul mate,tell you you are so beautiful,he will project to you the perfect relationship ad theb you will fall for him and syart giving him money,phone calls visits and you know what...when he gets outhe will go the other way thats if he doesnt use you first..You must remember one thing about these men...they are trying to survive and they need that outside connection,which is you.So please find you a free man,at least you will know what your working with.

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  14. I reconnected with my HS sweetheart through a social network. We met and it was like magic and all the feelings were still there. He had gotten into some trouble over the years and after a few weeks he was arrested. He has be in jail every since and I visit him, talk to him and write him daily. I am waiting on him because that few weeks was the best time of my life in alot of years. He feels the same way and he is so thoughtful.

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    1. My fiancé and I met 8 years ago. He is 26 and I am 40. We became friends then, really good friends. Drove across the country together. And then I got married. 5 years ago a I moved back to Tx and a friend of mine was in jail telli g his cell mate about and his cell mate happened to be...HIM! Well he got out the next day but he left a picture with my friend for me. For 3 years I searched for him. One day it popped in my head to in the TX Dept of Corrections Database to see is he was prison. BAM! There he sat. He has been incarcerated for 2 years has 2 more 2 go possibly parole this November but needless to say I wrote him right away. Because I knew I loved him back then but there were circumstances and he was way too young then..he needed to live..now his mom to me recently that on his way home from that cross country trip when he left me there he told her he had just left the woman he was going to marry...thi was our destiny

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    2. maam,something is seriously wrong with you.This boy is too young for you mentally even though you seem to be missing some fuses he does not want you and shame on you for wanting him in such a vulnerable state.go find you a man that is at least close to your age and mentalky on your level and let that man live with a younger woman on his level..geesh what is wrong with you damn women.

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  15. Let's just stay strong for them and for ourselves! It takes a strong woman to endure the things we're going through! With that said, if they want to get out and act a fool,we can move on with pride!! U got a record and ur ways are wreckless! He'll be right back cause its a pattern! God don't like ugly especially a ugly criminal!! Love lonnie

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    1. NO IT TAKES A STUPID WEAK,AND DESPERATE,VULNERABLE LOW SENSE OF SELF TO ALLOW THEMSELVES TO ENDURE SUCH AORETENTIOUS AND FALSE BELIEF OF LOVE AND OF HAVING A MAN.GOD DOES NOT LIKE UGLY BUT HE FINDS NO FAVOR IN FOOLISHNESS EITHER.THESE MEN ARE IN PRISON FOR A REASON AND THEY CHOSE TO BE LOCJED UP BECAUSE OF THEIR DEEDS AND IF A BUNCH OF LONELY WOMEN WANT TO WAIT ON THEM IIN HOPES OF CHANGING THEM,SAVING THEM,BEING IN LOVE WITH THEM AND DREAMIBG THEN GO AHEAD AND WASTE AWAY, WITH THEM AND GO AHEAD AND DO TIME WITH THEM BESIDES YOU HAVE NOTHING ELSE BETTER TO DO AND WHILE YOUR FRIENDS ARE LEARNING THEIR MEN AND BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR NEN BEING TOGETHER DOING THINGS AND LIVING LIFE TO THE FULLEST WITH THEIR MEN,YOU WOMEN WILL STILL BE HOLDING ON TO WHAT IFS,HOPE,PRAYERS AND A DREAM WHILE YOUR LIFE IS PASSING YOU BY..REMEMBER YOU GET WHAT YOU ALLOW YOUESELVES TO HAVE AND YOU GIVE TO YOURSEKF WHAT ONLY YOYTHINK YOU DESERVE..MY PRAYER GOES OUT TO YOU WOMEN CAUSE ITS SAD SAD SITUATION.

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    2. you haven got a clue ur doing my head in if you think were STUPID WEAK,AND Desperate wat are u doing on this site urself.. wer all in love if we weren't we wouldn't be waiting on our men.....!!!

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  16. Anonymous said...

    God sent me my soulmate for life and he is in
    prison. He has served 11 years and man says he has 16 left. The way things have fallen God says he has been wrongfully convicted and God will set him free. God gets all the glory for things that are impossible with man is possible with Christ. I love him dearly and I don't even look at him as if he is in prison. We love each other deeply and can't imagine life without each other. I go visit him alot and talk all the time. I love him with all my heart and soul.

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    1. Thank you, my high school sweetheart and I reconnected after 40 yrs and he has been in prison 10yrs wrongly accused. We have been in touch for 4 months and it has been wonderful. I truly believe he is innocent and god brought us back together and has a bueatiful plan for our lives
      Maur

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  17. ihave fallen in love with aman who is in jail right now we exchange ltter for the past six months. ilove him so much although it is possible for us to be together because of the distance between us, we live 2000 miles away and even for avisit it cant be eithr because it will takes time tobe in america.

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  18. I never thought I would be on a site like this. No Offense to any of you, but I was already married to an alcoholic and divorced after 21 years of marriage. I am 48 and have been divorced 7 years and fell in love with a loving man. I already knew he had 3 dwi and was serving his last months under probation. I kept the wall up a bit, saw the future of him being sent to jail for dwi again. I found myself saying, please becareful and he was and he cut down. I have no idea how this legal stuff works. I am very naive, my ex just got in fights but never had the legal part of his alcoholism. After knowing this man for 2 years, my worst nightmare came. A police officer called, and told me he wasn't coming home tonight. He was arrested for dwi. He had 6 months left of his other probation. I cried and it felt like a dream, I just wanted to wake. I called his family and they were telling me find out what the bond is, etc? What is a bond? what does this all mean? I felt like such a stupid little girl in love, had no street smarts. After 3 days, I got him out and used the money he gave me for an engagement ring. The problem was, I had my standards and told him if he screws up that is it. But I didn't know that my whole world would get turned upside down. Now what? Well I found a lawyer, and we are waiting. I am praying in his favor, he knows he has consequences. I am hoping it will be treatment and not prision. I know it doesn't look good. But my faith keeps me believing that "miracles" can happen. Tonight he is at a Men's Retreat at our church. I pray that God fills his heart and protects him and gives me the strength to hold on. The one question, I ask myself, how long can I wait? I have no idea. I just pray that he is healed and this was the awaking moment. If not, I can't go on if he doesn't stop. It is too hard!

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  19. well first I would like to wish all the ladies good luck...but my boyfrnd only got 6 months frm a ten yr sentee wit sum pnrobation,thank god.nnow frm the year ago when we meet,i can hone.stly say he,s the one i mean this has been a rocky year but we still here thru thee grace of god amen.and when he get out march 21,2012. we plan on working on a kid r 2my first he has two girls already,so hopefully sum boys and get married n the future...i mean it gets real frustrating at times espicaly when you use to your man...then not to mention these niggas always talking bout they can make yo forget bout your lover n jail smh in ya dreams...plus im like the only one he got now both parents dead bro locked up other bro talk bad bout him.and i dnt even thank his sis, knw...i go vist him every thursday .write him as much as the mailman run and go send him holiday cards..now money tight he knows this so i dnt have money on the phone r books but i tol him let me knw if you need money on yo books i got u .he said no bae take care yo family mom n sis till i get out to help.you just knw uma put u n that kitchen when i get out....ladies good luck&take care

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  20. My fiance just got arrested a couple of weeks ago, we've been friends for years and just started dating a few days over a year ago... I started dating him knowing full well that he was going to end up serving some time, the case is still pending but we really don't have bail money right now. We're only nineteen years old... This is literally the hardest thing I've ever had to endure in my life, not knowing how long things are going to stay like this is even worse. I can no longer accept his calls, I'm out of work temporarily but I've been trying to get back into the workforce to afford his bail or at least be able to accept his calls. I've been sending him letters and visiting him every day that I can, I've been researching aspects of his case and stay in near-constant contact with his lawyer, and trying to do literally anything I can to help him. We've been living together our entire relationship though, and it's hard waking up every morning and going to sleep every night without having him next to me. I feel so empty, I guess I'm just glad I'm not the only one who has to go through this kind of stuff. I'm completely in love with this guy, and he's looking at up to fifteen or twenty years. I'm at a complete stand-still on what to do; I've gotten him a lawyer, I'm putting what I can into his inmate account so he can buy something he can actually stomach eating, I see him on the three days I'm allowed to during the week and send letters when I can't see him, I'm keeping in contact with his family and keeping his friends as updated as possible, I'm trying to get a few jobs to post his bail hopefully before Christmas so we can spend at least that together... Does anyone have any suggestions on anything else I can do? I'm going crazy here, I feel like I'm hardly making a difference.

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  21. I would've never thought of my love will be prison but I love him and I know we gonna make it;)

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  22. My boyfriends has been in for 2 months his got 16 months to Go..! I visit him as much as i can and i tell you what it breaks my heart every time i have to leave him, its hard girls but just think all they do in there is think about us and thinking what we are up to, but as for us atleast we can keep busy for the day and take our minds off them for a little while i mean i have 2 kids so they keep me busy during thr day, but then comes night laying in bed and i cant get him off my mind, but like he tells me its not a life time to wait NO its not but its not around the corner either but i will be strong and wait for him his the love of my life, so stay strong girls your man will be back in your arms in no time.

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  23. i am a 30 year old woman my husband has been in prison for the last 4 months. we talk and write each other.we are soul mates and ill be here after he gets out he is the best thing that ever happened to me.

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  24. i met my boyfriend through a friend in jail this yr. He has been in there since he was 17 now 23 he due to sit this board in jun 2012 he was sentenced to 2yr IPP. At first we was just friends then he told me he loved me and i was every thing he wanted i felt the same, he asked me to marry him and i said yes this was his 4th engagment, then so shit happen and we didnt speak for three month he eventually got back in touch and he found out i had visited my ex also in jail, said i had cheated but he would give me another chance but it is ok for him to still speak with his ex. Should i wait for him or move on

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  25. i am lost and very confused,a week ago i entered the inmate dating site only for curiosity, and did not want to write or contact anyone only i thought am not crazy not in a million years i would write or waste my time for someone i dont even know a criminal who will be free and mybe kill me,,,,, we something happened when i was looking at the photos i saw a photo of a guy who looked exactly like my dream man,my heart was beating so fast, i read his profile and my heart when i saw he was there for life i started crying i dont why and what happened to me tthe look in his eyes, it was like he was saying dont turn your back on me i need you, i dont know mybe am crazy this is not normal, then i went to google him and i found out he was there since 95 for murder, but that didnt change my feelings instead i felt so sorry for him, the following day i started writing to him i took some pictures and was suppose to mail the letter the following day but i fogort the memmory card with the pistures on it, so i thought the following day i will , then again on i forgot the memmory card now i thought this is the sign am not suppose to contact him, went back home the following day,i enter the site again just to look at his photo God every time i look at him i could see the sadness in his eyes, i went out and saw the guy i thought i really like at the party but when he was talking to me i did not hear the word he was saying i was thinking about the prison guy went back home around 2am left without saying good bye to my friends when i got home i started looking at the his picture again and i started writing a new letter and didnt sleep until 6am woke up at 10am went straight to the foto shop with a memory card got the pics went to a chocolate store bought the most expensive chocolate there am crazy i know lol, went to the post office, i wanted to do a first class but now as i bought the chocolate the money was not enough ufffff went home back to the post office now they told me i have to make a fotocopy of my passport that was like 4 blocks i went came back now when i was about to pay they dont accept dollars, well am in Peru, GOD if i did not love this stranger i would have given up, went to change the money finaly i post the package, after few days i did a track n trace its on its way to him, now am nervously waiting,i look at his picter before i go to sleep and the first thing in the morning, does anyone think am crazy this has never happened to me before, i dont think am in my right mind.

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  26. ahhhh.. Im goin through it right now. tear. my hubby of 7 yrs may be going bac to jail he already did a year cam home in 08' now if he plea guilty hes going bck for 5-7yrs. we have a 5 yrs old and one on the way i dnt know hpw imma survive this i barely survive the year he did and my son is gonna miss his daddy so much nd my baby girl might not her daddy im so lost right now. thanks for the tips above. tryin to have faith but damn...

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  27. I am as lost as lost can be. Been married twice and then found my soulmate. He goes off to jail for the second time and he has now had more time in jail than we have had together. I love him and will not give up. I have lost my daughter and friends because of this but do not care he is my life and soul. I feel for everyone that has lost a loved one to jail. What do you do when there is nothing left for you to do?

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  28. I would like to wish all of u ladies luck with ur situations. I have read all these comments and I admire the dedication. My situation is slightly different because my fiance should have a took a deal for 6 years but we believed the lawyer and he railroaded him and he received 91 yrs to life. I am so lost, and angry. I too am finishing my nursing career because i am not sure what else to do with myself without him. I have men falling all over me, but through years of stupid men he has made me complete and safe and loved. I had only been with him 4 intense months and knew there might be a fight in court. The case drug out over 2 1/2 yrs before the terrifing day came to face the music.. he has very strong grounds for and appeal and that is in motion, however i have never been in this situation before and I just can't breathe. I guess i just need some imput from the outside by women who understand loving a bad boy and the trials we go through and what I am up against and basically what to do. 8 can not see myself with no one else and can not even stand no one looking at me, please help seriously, I am way too confused......

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  29. I am with a man who is about to go to prison for 3 to 5 years. he is the father of my child and we want to get married before he goes to do his time. i was wondering if we go to get our marriage license in a different state then he is wanted in, will he be arrested when we go to get it? will he be arrested at the courthouse when we get married? im so afraid but he really wants to get married and doesnt want to wait, i dont want to wait either. i am so in love with him. we have already started a family he is like my bestfriend. its going to be hard being without him. i am not ready for him to go yet but i know he has to. i just dont want to go to the courthouse to get our license and get married then he be arrested there. it would break my heart. someone please let me know if this is a bad idea

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  30. Thankyou for making my night, MY fiancée has been in jail now for 6 long months and we are only at the beginning of our long journey. We have a two year old son and are determined and confident that we will make it. love can survive prison walls we live by the saying "its not always rainbows and butterfly's it compromise that moves us along" love is a compromise stand by your man !

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  31. I love my "husband to be" very much. We plan to marry in prison in the next few years. We have not set a date. I am going to always be there for him forever. We love each other endlessly. He is a changed man and devotes his life to serving God while in prison and I am sure he will remain God fearing when he comes home. I am not crazy, co-dependent, or any other thing that people say about women who love prison inmates. I am a normal God fearing woman that happens to be in love with a man that had to go to prison. He has 14 more years in prison, we will both be in our 60's when he comes home, but true, unconditional love is worth the wait. I am faithful and couldn't imagine being with another man. I will remain celibate until he comes home. He is there for dealing drugs, he is not a bad person, just made a bad choice and that is no reason to give up on him and abandon him. I will love him unconditionally forever. We try to talk several times a week and we email each other daily and write letters everyday. It is worth it if there is true, unconditional love..God bless

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    1. Hello this sounds like my story, thank you for posting your personal life. I am also getting married this year to my lovely man, who is in prison.I dont tell too many people because they can be very negative.We will be in our late 40s.
      It is worth waiting. may God bless

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  32. I need some advice!!! HELP..

    I meant a guy back in september , and we meant in a very random way. I was waiting for the local transit one morning with my daughter and he walked by and smiled. A few days later he walked by again,, that time he said hi. Then again ..THE THIRD time he sparked up a convo and we chit chatted and what not.. and talked to my daughter and seemed very interested. I gave him my numnber and he were in serperable since that day well intill November that is. He was on parole trying to get his life back on track and he used marijuana and was tested for a urinalisis and failed. The parole board of Canada revoked him..which was a huge shocker.. now he has to finish his sentence he has 9 months left. My family and friends think i am nuts for dedicating myself to him ..and waiting for him. I was always treated so horribly by men in the past when i meant him i was on cloud 9 .. he treated me like a queen as well as my daughter. He was like the father she never had. I feel I will definitly not meet someone as loving as him ever again..and its worth waiting for. His behavoir hasnt changed since he went backk to jail.. he still says the same things as he always would about spending out lives together.. and how he is in love with me. Although we live to opossite life styles.. i feel its worth it and he will be able to change and give me everything i never had in a man. I need some imput.. do i follow my heart??? and wait?? or am i plain crazy? lol

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    1. You are not crazy..one thing I have learned is that other people will always tell you what you need to do with your life without understanding the emotional side to it. The problem with relationships in general is that there is too much external stimuli that causes two people from emotionally connecting,ex girlfriends, friends who hate on your relationship, family always telling you what you need to do ect ect ect. If anything, this could be the perfect time for the two of you to really get to know each other on a deeper level without the rest of that garbage. You already know what he smells like, feels like, looks like and how he acts right? If all of those things are perfect for you then take this time to get to know him through letters and phone calls. 9 months is nothing when it comes to a prison sentence. Take the next 9 months and focus on doing good things for yourself like school, the gym, time with your child and connecting to someone you may have a future with. Men are a dime a dozen, but how many of them can give you forever? If you think this man can then you have nothing to lose. If it doesn't end up working out then was it really that bad spending 9 months focusing on good things in your life while you were waiting on him? You will be fine...follow your heart and ignore comments from others. Those people who call you crazy won't hold you every night when you fall asleep like this man might do when he comes home. Good Luck =)

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  33. Wow.. thank you so much !! This really helped alot ..it is just so hard when you have alot of negativity in your ears all the time.. you can do better blah blah blah .. But everything you just said is sooooo true! I am going to follow my heart and focus on my life for this short time. This is an experiene that others looking in on it will never understand, unless they have gone threw it. People that have negative opinions when it comes to assoicating themselves with men in prision are not going to give you good advice or support you. I have connected with him even more since I seen him 4 months ago, I feel like I have known him for years.. weird how things happen.Everytime the phone rings my heart skips a beat ..Thanks for the advice.. it really just made me feel 100% better ..I even read it to him a few mintes ago on the phone ..and it definitly made him feel good to ! Now I can ease of the questioning myself everyday if I am doing the right thing ..Good men are hard to find !! I think good things do come to those who wait !..Fingers crossed :)

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  34. My boyfriend of two years was recently taken into custody and I am going through it right now. I miss him so much he is my rock, my best friend, my soul mate and we have always been practically joined at the hips. I don't k.ow how much time he will have to do and there is a possibilty that he might get extradited to the other side of the country. No matter the outcome I am determined to stay by his side and be his support. I have my moments when I feel strong and confident about how things will work out and at other times i'm sobbing like a lunatic because all I want is to be able to lay in bed and cuddle with him again. This house is not a home without him and it is causing my heart to ache. I miss my baby so much.

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    1. Aww that is so sweet. Me and my man were practically joined at the hip too. He is also doing time. Good luck and stay strong!

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  35. Thank you so much for the positive words. It helps to know love prevails through the prison walls.

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  36. My boyfriend got arrested a few days ago in lauderdale with drugs,every day since the arrest I have bin crying every where I turn I am getting negative inputs.I really love him an I know he loves me,he hasnt bin sentenced or anything yet but I am scared as to what the outcome will b,I will wait on him no matter how long it takes.my boyfriend an I are not Americans if it means for me to marry him in jail I would,I just need some advise as to how to go about it. He is my everything

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  37. My Finance just went to jail, and may be there for up to three years, but we are not sure yet. We have been together for many years. He is a manager at a pizza restaurant, and I'm in grad school to become a doctor and I also work part time teaching gymnastics. We are also expecting our first baby in 9 weeks. A little boy that we've decided to name Jameson. He loves me and he could not wait to meet our beautiful baby. He giggled like a child every time he felt my belly move. He violated his probation because he took prescription pain medication for a fractured wrist. We didn't know that he failed is drug test until we were woke up this morning, and they took him away from me. Even if I go visit him, I won't get to see him. They make you sit in a room and video chat. I'm so terrified that he will not see the birth of our child, and that I have to go through that without my best friend. Natural child birth (no medication) is such a scarey thing without your support group. I'm only 20 years old, and I have so many things that I do every day with school, work, and soon a baby. I don't think I can do it without him. I need his support. When the world makes fun of my silly organic food, cloth diapering, and the other choices I make, he always stands beside me... and now he's gone. What do I do? ):

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    1. Hang in there. My fiance is in prison as well, looking at 15-21 months. I'm 7 months pregnant with our son. He was so looking forward to being there for his birth. I too do natural childbirth, organic food, cloth diapers, etc... Try to find a support group. Laleche league, homeschoolers, if you have a midwife she will have other clients with a similar life style to yours. Look for yahoo groups in your area. It's earth-shattering to not have him there for the birth, but we are strong. Write every little detail of the experience for him. Take pictures (that you can send). Take that baby to see him as soon as you can. He'll get out eventually and you can spend your lives together. It's hard, but not impossible.

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  38. jenni its hard but u have to stand strong for both of yalu especially for the baby that's on the way.my bf might get 3yrs also an am not sure if were expecting but am trying to hold firm an let god take control

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  39. I have been called everything you could think of. Because I met a guy it will be 3 years in April he was serving time and still is. I get called names and everything because that is where I met him I was working at the prison he was at. But why I was working there I did not treat him any diffirent than I did the rest of them. I would not mess with him why I was working there. But I knew in my heart I wanted to be with him. But 6 months ago I had to quite work because of family medical problems and we started writing, I wrote him first. He got moved and working there I knew how to find out where he was moved to. I can not see him until I have been gone from the prison for 2 years we write each other everyday and he can call. I am not a bad person God just sent me the love of my life where I worked. I use to say I lost a lot of friends by being with him, but I didnt because if they were friends they would understand. But that is okay because I found my best friend and that is my man. I support him in everyway I can and stand beside him why he is in and when he gets out. He is in for drugs and burg. and he knows he did wrong he is doing his time.

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  40. I'm glad to know I'm not the only one going through this. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. About a month ago he got arrested. I miss him so much it hurts. The first couple of weeks he was goon I was like a zombie. I couldn't eat,sleep,or function. I'm getting better day by day but it is still very hard to not be able to wake up too him every morning or to not go to sleep on his chest like I use to every single night. I feel so guilty because the only reason he did the things he did was to make sure I had. Place to sleep, food to eat, and anything else I needed. Because my whole family deserted me and wanted nothing to do with me. I know he is my soul mate,my rock, the love of my life. I have never loved a man like I love him. I have never had someone b a sweet, loving, and as good to me as he has been. We talk bout getting married and having a baby together. We don't known how long he has to serve we find out the 16th of this month. I'm hoping they let him go with time served for the probation violation and a few years probation, but he could get up too 8 years. But his lawyer has a deal worked out that if they do he can go to Michigan for a year. Its killing me too know he could possible be away from me that long. But I will for sure wait on him. I couldn't even imagine being with another man or even another man touching me. We write and call each other everyday so it makes it a little easier but I can't wait for the day to be able to run and jump into my man's arm and told have him hold me again. I'm glad I found this site though makes it a little easier to talk to people in similar situations and not have people judge me for sticking by my man.

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  41. I know what you mean. I met a man whilst working in prison and we now write. He is serving life (isolated offence) but only has a few more years to go before maybe getting out. He is in a different prison now. We really fell for each other but I feel like I am just being selfish and thinking of writing a letter to him to tell him that we can't write anymore. I would happily wait for him but he has a family at home who have already devoted their lives to waiting for him for the last 9 years so one, I am terrified of the repercussions but also terrified of letting him down as I'm worried I might break his heart and prison is no place to have a broken heart. I wonder if I should ask him if we stop the romantic talk and promise only friendship. He has a family to go home to and I feel it's all my fault now that we have feelings for each other. I don't want a broken heart and I don't want to break his or his families hearts. I know what I need to do but doing it is not as easy as it is said. What to do, help?

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    1. I agree with u on telling him to only be friends because if he has a family that devoted their lives to him for 9 years and he turns on them and cheats with u then that shows what type of man he is. If he gets out it will be hard for u to trust him because if he cheats in prison he will do it in the free world. Im so sorry to say that this doesnt look good. But u never know where love could take u guys but it does sound wrong and like u are wrecking a home and he is also to blame

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  42. this all sounds good but not every prisoner has good intentions. i have known my guy since i was thirteen and we are now in our late 40"s.i hooked up with him about 5 yrs. ago. he was a model prisoner and charming.after all he wasnt a stranger so we had plans of marriage. he got out and has literally put me through hell. verbally abusing me as well as stealing my car. cocaine and alcohol abuse was his thing so i found out. i also dealt with his many women who were mostly prostitutes and druggies. now he is back in a re-entry program. dont believe them without a good reason. hope it works out for you all but beware bc it doesnt always go as planned and it hurts like hell. best of luck to you all but be careful.

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  43. My husband was on intensive probation for a year befor he got revoked for smoking "spice" a legal form a marijuana, Although it is illegal in the state of arizona. He is going to be sighning a plea for 10 months. So hell be doing 4-7 months most likly. We have been together for 6 years since I was 16 years old. This is by far the hardest thingI ever been through. Hes my best friend and my husband so when they locked him up I lost both. I am waiting for him, thats a given. But this isnt somthing to take lightly, its very hard to keep your man happy when theres so little you can do!

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  44. This is my first time having to go through this with my first love/high school sweetheart/fiancee sigh it definitely is harder than I expected and its only been one day. Ive been a wreck and had no clue on what to do for myself and for him, I feel frustrated that I can't help him when he tells me how he feels. This article has definitely made me feel better and opened my eyes, Thank you for posting it. I always said to him we can do this baby this is just another obstacle in our journey together we can get through this and I truly believe it. Since we met at 15 we knew that we were meant for one another 7 years later we still believe it love conquers all. Best of luck to everyone going through this we can do it guys just love love n more love! Bless!

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  45. My story is a little different. My fiance is in prison for protecting me. I was being attacked by my neighbors of all people and he jumped in the middle of it to save me. Because my neighbors are known snitches, my fiance does the jail time despite my best efforts to tell my story to anyone who would listen (which turns out, no one cared). He has been gone 2 months of a 9 to 23 month sentence. Like everyone else, the first couple weeks were very hard and stressful. There are easy days and then there are the hard days. But with each day that goes by, it is one more day closer to him coming back to me. He truly doesn't deserve to be in prison and it's my fault that's he's in there. Rather than blame me and resent me for the time that he is in there, he reassures me that he doesn't blame me and he wants to be with me forever. In fact, we only get closer each passing day. I can honestly say that he is definately the one for me if he can sacrifice his freedom for my safety. I am truly proud of him and tell him everyday through letters and phone calls that I love him, appreciate him, and I am right by his side every step of the way. Just like I was there before he left, I will be there when he comes home. We all have our ways of dealing with our loved ones being gone. I try to live as normal life as possible. the nights are lonely and the mornings are hard. But I know it's not forever. I love him and he loves me and that is the way it will always be! Unconditional love is the key to survival.

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  46. Feeling so sad, lonely, lost and confused... Today, my b/f of almost 8 years was sentenced to 15 years in prison.He has already been in jail for 4 months before they even had the plea date. Guess it will be another 3-4 months before the actual sentencing date. I am and will most definately wait for his return home if he makes it in prison and if I am still alive. I am 11 years older than he and when he gets out I will be 60 yrs old or dead. I find that it already has been very hard to take all this in. I do love him with all my heart. I will be by his side just as before. He means everything to me. I know it's going to be very hard to wait 15 years but I'm going to do my best. Today, I could not bear to finish work so I went home early. Does anyone else out here have someone that was sentenced 10 years or more? Are there any groups that one can possibly join for support? I would appreciate any input to my questions. PLEASE My heart goes out to every woman/man that has a loved one serving time. It is very hard on the outside too without the one you love next to you.

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  47. i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 year now. he is looking at 2 to 5 years if they find him guilty and im pregnant. I am really upset but I'm feeling stronger than ever because of our baby I have inside of me. I have faith that everything will go well and that he will be out in no time! I love him with all my heart. The only thing in the back of my mind is when he gets out will he still love me the way he did before and will he still remain with me. He thinks I am going to be a bad girl in other words he thinks I am going to "hoe" around while he is in there. He said if i want to make my life without him that I can? He says he knows that I am not going to wait for him untill he gets out.

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    1. the father of my children has just gone to prison and he has decided to tell me to move on with my live because i deserve better than him and that he is not going to return to the family home, he is going into a hostel instead. i cant believe he would rather go to a hostel then come home to his kids after being away from them for a whole year. i think it is just there way of protecting themselves because men are a lot weaker then woman when it comes to facing emotions.

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  48. Thank you sooo much, there aren't any write-ups like this one on the web during my lonely time i am trying to endure

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  49. Real love is worth waiting for. We don't know what the future may hold but God hold. Us to our hearts of Love .. be patient and keep praying. God bless you all!!!

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  50. Hello all,
    My name is Beth and I am making a documentary about women with partners in prison. I am moved by your stories and I want to share them. Do any of you live in the Philadelphia area? I would love to interview you for the documentary. You will be provided with a free copy of the documentary. Thank you and if you want to be interviewed, email me at patel.beth@gmail.com.
    Thank you,
    Beth

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  51. I quite enjoyed reading this and everyone's stories

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    1. so did I...it is so much support in here and I don't feel crazy or stupid for loving a man that is behind bars...

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  52. hi i have a partner in prison he has been there 3 months now and will be out this time next year, we have 3 kids together and b4 he wenr we had a really loving family and he was a devoted date, now he has refused to see me and has told me he wants me to move on with my life and find someone else who will treat me the way i deserve. And he has even told the kids he will never come home again just come to visit them, has anyone else been through this, i really love him and i know he feels guilty for wha he has done but i cant understand how he could turn his back on his family.

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  53. Hi my boyfriend of 4 years just got sentenced today he got 5 years jail time and 5 years probation. Im so lost without him we spent everyday togther and now he is just gone. Does anyone know in lousiana if its 85% of 5 years r 75% im trying to find out how much time he isgoing to do ?

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    1. My bf wizard sentence 2 5yeard an only have 2 do 26 months of dat an we live in louisiana

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  54. WOW...these posts almost made me cry...I am glad that I read ALL of your stories...I am in a crazy situation...I met a man whom I dated for 8 months...1 1/2 of the months he was in jail for a DUI in Cali (which is where we lived)..Once he got there I learned that he was wanted in Texas for probation violation and he was extradited back. He never told me this and I felt so angry about how he kept this from me. But I believe we did fall in love and now I want to move to Texas to be closer to him. I fell so crazy right now! We had a lot of drama in our relationship during those few months but we never left each other. It was like we knew that we loved each other but he couldn't be settle because of this past he was trying to hide. For some reason I feel like it would be wrong for me to leave and turn my back on him. It's like what would I want someone to do if it were me in that situation. I feel like if I stick by his side that it could possibly change his life and he would know what it really feels like for someone to truly love you. I don't think he has ever had that and I have never sacrificed so much for love. Isn't that what love is all about. I mean I am 33 with 3 kids and he is 47 with a few himself...but I just feel like he is the one and I need to be there for him....I hope I'm not tripping and wasting my time...He could be facing up to 5 years...

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    1. Jigga2k. I need a pen pal, are you willing? Timbbey@yahoo.com

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  56. Hi i just want to say thank you very much for theses word of encouragment i really needed it. my boyriend is in prison and is sentenced for 23 months also and im goint through hell!! thank u i feel much better! :)

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  57. my name is rachel and i have been married 6 years and girls i know what ur going through...my husband the father of our child is 4 know. and off and on hes been in jail, my husband is not a bad guy but when u have a last name the cops dont like it seems like there out to get you. i hate that my husband is gone once again. i miss and love him verey much.. just be strong. i am waiting and hoping my husband gets out soon. to come home.. there is such a thing you can try to get your husband to come home on passes called a furlogh. ask your lawyers or the prision about them. i am still staying strong for my family... girls stay strong... THEY APPREATITE IT ALL THAT U CAN DO... i love my husband and i miss him verey verey much. and i am going to continue to stay strong for him...

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  58. Hello everyone.. I just wanted to say reading some of your stories have helped me be at ease... I met an amazing man 3 months ago.. we have been dating almost 2 months now... But 2 weeks into the relationship he was brought to jail for a DUI from the past.. I love him... It sounds crazy but there was something different about him...he calls me 5 times a day just to make sure I know he's thinking about me and know that he loves me... I've seen him a few times I was terrified going to visit him in there behind glass.. I am 22 years old and this is the first time dealing with it... Hardest thing ever.. I hate it but will continue to stand by him until the day hr gets out... Whenever that may be. Didn't. Know I was this strong until it was my only choice... He tells me daily as long as,he has me he will be okay ,and if we survive this we can get through it all.. I may even have a ring on my finger .. stay strong ladies.. thanks for helping me have hope that love can't stop even if your loved one is gone for awhile

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    1. Hi Doctor calama, It took me a long time to think about this testimony! You helped me so much lately that I really wanted to express all the feelings I have since I met you. Of course, I am really happy that you reunited us. Yet, what I will remember from that fantastic experience you made me live with this spell, it s that you have always been a very kind and sincere person. Now I consider you like a confident, and not only a simple spell caster. You remind me a lot of my grandmother who was counting me many stories about voodoo when I was young. You are a rare person and I m glad that I met you. I can feel all your spiritual goodness in all the emails you wrote, from the first day until now! I ll be forever thankful. Rebecca, Capetown contact this spell caster on africa_voodoo@yahoo.com

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  59. My Name is JEREMY.I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our weeding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her facebook and she changed her facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..i lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him to GREATORACLETEMPLESOLUTION@LIVE.COM i cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck greatoracletemplesolution@live.com

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  60. Its not just husbands that get locked up my wife just got sentenced to 2 years 4 months after we had our first child together so im raising our son together I love her dearly and will never give up on her but im afraid she will she is so bitter Idk know how to keep her strong any advice on any thing please!!

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  61. Hello ladies,
    My husband went to jail 5 years and 2 months ago, our anniversary is Saturday, he still has 3 years and 2 weeks left until he gets to come home. It is very hard dealing with life witout your partner, your strong arm, your soulmate and your love. Your heart feels empty and upset and you are stressed to the very limit that you believe is all that you can handle and as we have all heard, God never gives us more than we can handle and we some days believe that we are there and then tomorrow we are still here striving to hear our partners voice, to feel that connection that we know is why we fell head over heels in love with him. I had no idea my husband would be gone so long, I thought he would be home soon and he hasn't, I stopped counting the days. I still get upset, cry and long for his arms to hold me just as he did before he left. It is hard ladies, but prayer is the strongest and sweetest gift that we have to help us make it through until tomorrow. I appreciate this site and hope that all of you that read this will know if I can make it as long as I have any of you can do exactly the same, I am a very insecure,needy female and I never thought I would be spending over eight years of my life alone. I have survived so far and I still love my husband and I know he wants to be at home, but circumstances sometimes intervene and I feel this has made me stronger. So whatever the lesson for us is supposed to be, I have learned that I am a good wife and I am still tired, hurt and ready for the love of my life to come home. Blessings come to those who believe. I believe all of you will survive and become better friends, partners and wives for enduring this life we would all like to not be experiencing but have conquered. Remember Prayer works.

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  62. Me and my girlfriend have not been together long at all. Only since January but we love each other so much. We were going to move in together and everything. She has to go to court soon to find out her sentence. I told her I wouldn't go anywhere and she has my full support and this is true. I have had difficulty coming to terms with my sexuality and with her I have never felt so comfortable in my life. If she has to go away I don't know what I am going to do. I know I have to try to build something for us when she comes back. Finish school and have a home for her to return to. I have never loved someone so much in my life

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  63. Hopefully her lawyer can make a deal, she was provoked by someone so it isnt her fault. I wish I was there when it happened, I could have kept her level headed. I can't eat, can't sleep. I know she will be okay. She got out on bail and came pass and we just held each other for like 5 minutes. I couldn't stop crying. I just don't know what to do. Need some support to help me through all of this.

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  64. Good day am Leanna Marie I am happy today because what bishop jakes has done for me which a friend of my introduce to me,i never believe untill i confirm it my self that there are still men who are real spell caster.I must testify for the happiness and joy he brought to my life by bringing back my ex husband who has left me for 4years with all the property we have but today he is back

    with additional property please help me to thank him , he is a God sent that is bless with wonderful power to help people you can as well try him and see how powerful he is,he do not charge untill the job is confirm done befor payment is real you can contact him his name is bishop jakes and sell phone number +2348057552934 or email him via: bishopjakesmore@gmail.com

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  65. I recently saw a testimony about a spell caster of some sort in a blog I visit for relationship and dating counseling problems because i had been having serious issues with my boyfriend and we had been dating for six months,he just suddenly changed,he was returning my calls,he started cheating,he was hurting me in so many ways i never thought possible and I just thought I should try it maybe out of desperation of some sort ..and I contacted them..At first everything felt dreamy and unbelievable,their consultations and solution was a little bit easy and strange and I was scared a little cos I heard read and heard lots of stories of fake spell casters,scams and i never really believed in magic..I played along with a little hope and and faith and I was sent some few stuffs after everything and it worked like a miracle,everything went to a while new direction,it was and is amazing…I guess it was all good faith that made me read That particular post that faithful day..I hope they could help other people too like they did me…I did a little and I got everything I wanted and wished for my husband,my family and my life back their address is; templeoflive@gmail.com

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  66. I recently saw a testimony about a spell caster of some sort in a blog I visit for relationship and dating counseling problems because i had been having serious issues with my boyfriend and we had been dating for six months,he just suddenly changed,he was returning my calls,he started cheating,he was hurting me in so many ways i never thought possible and I just thought I should try it*maybe out of desperation of some sort*..and I contacted them..At first everything felt dreamy and unbelievable,their consultations and solution was a little bit easy and strange and I was scared a little cos I heard read and heard lots of stories of fake spell casters,scams and i never really believed in magic..I played along with a little hope and and faith and I was sent some few stuffs after everything and it worked like a miracle,everything went to a while new direction,it was and is amazing...I guess it was all good faith that made me read That particular post that faithful day..I hope they could help other people too like they did me...I did a little and I got everything I wanted and wished for*my husband,my family and my life back*their address is; bishopjakesmore@gmail.com

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  67. im 18 and my fiancee is 21 me and him have been together abut a year he tells me everyday he loves me and i tell him the same and he says he will do anthing for me and to make sure im safe and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and to get a house together when he get out and have kids my dad and mum trust him and belive we will be together when were out but im scared we will drift apart an his ex has being trying to split us up only when he got the jail tho witch was a bitt fishy to me he promises and sawres on his best mates grave he dosent speak to her im scare hes looking at 3 years and it scares me incase we drift aprt rachelsommerville@live.co.uk

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  68. An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me..
    My name is Andy Sowers,i live in Australia,and I'm happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife.so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce.she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she didn't love me anymore.So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again.
    So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife.So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{supremelovespell@gmail.com}.
    So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who didn't call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster.
    So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website {supremelovespell@gmail.com},if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back.
    So thanks to the supremelovespellcaster for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.
    {supremelovespell@gmail.com},
    Thanks...

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  69. That was really helpful!!!!! I miss my husband very much and your story just made it easier for me to survive us being seperated. Thanks

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  70. "I can only say that agbalaxy@gmail.com spell was the best help that I could have had during the most traumatic time I’ve ever had in my life. My boyfriend of 2 ½ years decided to call off our relationship. Everything that he said would happen did, his behaviour was like reading from your lips. In terms of insight into my own personality and the way that I behave it was invaluable and I really won’t make those mistakes again, ever. So thank you , I would certainly recommend this to anyone going through difficult times, it was fantastic, it gave me a plan, which in turn gave me hope and got my life back on track at the same time. This got me through the first few weeks and is still helping me now.He now does all of the things that he never used to do and I’m so less needy, I feel like all of the negative stuff that made me what I’d become have fallen away and I’m back to my real self again. brandy

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  71. I am a 75 year old mother who has watched her son grow old in prison for a crime he did not do. Watching your 21 year old son be sent up and now after 35 years, Mom is still being Mom.Yes, we know what unconditional love is.

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  72. I was happy to read ur article....my name is Bret...I'm 22 n I lost my bestfriend in dec 08 when I moved away from him for school....I never thought he loved me like I madly loved him becuz he never made no advances toward me...n I was 19 n scared and n awww of his "kingpin" status....I knew wat he did...but I didn't judge him for that...I saw the man deep down underneath that nobody else saw...or even knew...he was my true to life bestfriend...but I wanted him to b my boyfriend...my lover...wanted him to kiss me...to make any sort of comment to me that he thought the same way...he didn't...soo one day I told him I had to move to go to school n a city 2 hrs away from where we met....shortly after I messed up n got pregnant....I love my son....I'm not with his father....I'm living as a single mother n this awful city I moved too....well my bestfriend who I was telling u bout JR....he got popped shortly after I moved....well me thinking he never felt nuthing for me other then a good friend I went on about my life trying to do the best I could....then to forces of nature a man wrote me outta no where from a prison...I didn't know him...soo I looked him up on Kasper a inmate search site...then I was jus playing round n looked up ppl from my old stomping grounds and BAM! There was JR...soo I hurried n looked at his page...saw where he was n on the spur of a idea...I wrote him....I was soo nervous...waiting for his reply....one thing I had wrote to him was "idk if you will remember me"...his reply to that statement was "girl..how could I ever forget u"...which made me ball like most things he does say to me...I n my next letter I proclaimed my love for him....and when I got his next letter...it changed both our lives forever...all this time...from the moment we had met and spent erryday together...we both didn't want to ruin our friendship...but had secretly loved the other...n had thought about one another since....nw he has 11 months left out of 53 he was sentenced....I love him soo much n in 2 wks I'm finally going to c him again for the first time since I left him soo many years ago...n I'm sooo nervous n scared n soo in love with this man my heart nearly bursts erryday from the feelings it holds....we r soulmates and never knew it....were too scared to tell the other that we wanted them....that I wanted to kiss him...to have him touch me....and nw...I feel as if this is a test from God...to ride this lass 11 months out...n then for the rest of our lives we will get to actually spend it with the one who we were put here to b with.....our soulmate...that's presious....but heartbreaking at the same time...cuz I miss this man's smile more then I would miss the sun...or rain...I jus wanna c him smile...touch his face and hear him tell me he loves me to my face...soo n a couple wks...my wish will b granted....n by this time next year...I will b the happiest woman/mother anyone will ever c....I love u JR!

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  73. My boyfriend went to jail this morning and gosh ive never had a harder goodbye than the one from last night and this morning :/ hes only there for 4 months but each day feels like a year! Im hoping he gets out on good behavior or something. My mother knows about him being in jail but my father on the other hand doesnt. So Im trying to hide this. Im scared if I pick up a collect call from him my dads going to be like whys the jail calling you so as I read from this adticle im going to try the letter writing. this article has made me be a little more optimistic and I thank you for that.

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    1. depending on the jail, you can set up pre-paid calling accounts that don't charge your phone...or they can buy calling cards on commissary. Google securus technologies and see about setting up a calling account. My fiance calls me severeal times a day and it only charges like 65 cents per call...

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  74. My husband is in federal prison and he has been there for a while and I am at home waiting and it is extremely hard, it is affecting my health from stress and worry, he has over 2 years until he comes home and my heart is still stressed and tearful. When do the tears stop. I can't function normally, 8 years is a long time and I am still not over all of this and like I said my health if being affected and I am trying to stay positive for my man but I am not able to let go of him not being at home, I am not wanting to be unfaithful, I just want to have a normal life and I have not found the solution to the problem. What do you do to get through the really, really rough years? I need some guidance.

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  75. I met my boyfriend, Estevan, a year and 1/2 ago, and after 1 week, he told me he loved me. I was 25 and he was 45. I told him he was crazy and if he thought he loved me he didn't know what love was because it was impossible because he didnt even know me. Everytime he said "I love you" (which was everyday) I'd respond with, "Ok, Crazy." I got divorced from my exhusband about 2 years prior, and was not over it. He cheated on me (after I spent 1 year waiting for him while he was deployed in Iraq during the war). I told him there was something wrong with me because I didn't have feelings for anyone anymore and I was ruined and would never love anyone again. Many times I told Estevan to leave me alone, even went as far to threaten him with a restraining order! HE NEVER LEFT ME ALONE. After 6 months, I fell in love with him. 2 weeks later he got arrested and I was heartbroken. He was to serve 6 months. I didn't think I could do it, and since our relationship was so new... I wanted to end it. I tried to write him a letter telling him that, but I just couldn't send it. I was the only good thing in his life... and sometimes I felt like he was just using me b/c i was some dumb, niave, little girl that he would tell he loved so i would send him money and things. i ended up sleeping with another man who knew i had a boyfriend in jail. i did date other men. i was really nervous when my boyfriend came out that we wouldnt make it. we fought all the time when he did come out, and i couldn't take it anymore so i wanted him to hate me, i guess, so i told him i slept with someone else. it broke his heart and i still get grief over it from him.... he STILL STAYED. That man has never left my side. The last arrest was for shoplifting, a violation of his parole, for stealing makeup and a beer. he happened to have a dime of heroin on him at the time. That is what the 6 months were for. So here we are, a year later, and they are just now bringing up the drug charges.

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  76. They wanted him to take the plea for 2.5 years. we said no, wed fight it. Then, that night, he got stopped my a police officer for riding his bicycle w/o a light at dusk, not even dark ut yet, they searched him and found a pocket knife, multi-tool, and arrested him. I didn't even get to say goodbye. I was going to see him in the morning. Now we are looking at at 18 months or so, and I will wait this time. I won't sleep with other men...Know why??? Because NO ONE on this earth will ever treat me better than he has... and when i did cheat on him the last time he was locked up, by dating other men, i realized that. I do regret it, and wish I could have realized that some other way... but i cant change it and i cant take it back, only pray that one day he will forgive me fully...i know he will never forget. Ladies, you will know if your man is worth waiting for. Does he send you things back, like pictures or anything? Does he encourage you to be better? Do you talk about your future TOGETHER when he gets out? Mine does, and I know he will never leave me. He could tell me that until he was blue in the face and I wouldnt believe him, but he showed me, hes not going anywhere and hed do anything for me. he always puts my needs first. I was mad at him the 1st time he went to prison and didnt believe this because i felt like he wasnt thinking about ME when he was out there stealing dumb shit... so it was his own dumbass fault for getting arrested, and leaving me... but, i realized that was not the case, and he never wants to be away from me. I am so glad it will be less than 2 yrs... i dont know if i could wait any longer... its a very hard thing to do... but love conquers all, and true love is hard to find, hard to maintain, and hard to keep, but it is soooo worth it,on't you agree? I can't even think of being with another man, he is it for me... my one and only. I love him more than i loved my 1st husband, and i didn't think that was possible. Good luck, i pray for each of you, no matter the outcome, but i wish you all the best!

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  77. oh, the picture that is showing is of us :)

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  78. hello i have a boyfirend that just got sentence to do 2 years im 5 months pregnant his been in jail for about four i allready have a soon from another man thats almost 3 my boyfirend is been here since he was 10 months , i just a little scared now im going to be a single mother of 2 boys and the love of my life is in jail Yes he has cheated on me at the begining of the relationship, ITS BEEN OVER 4 MONTHS SINCE HIS BEEN IN JAIL AND IM JUST SCARED TO THINK THAT THINGS ARE GOING TO CHANGE WHAT IF WE FEEL DIFFERENT ABOUT EACH OTHER WHEN HE GETS OUT? WHAT IF AFTER ME WAITING FOR HIM HE LEAVES ME IF I GET FAT AFTER THE BABY ? WHAT IS I DONT KNOW I REALLY WANT TO STAY FAITHFULL TO HIM AND I KNOW IM INLOVE WITH HIM BUT IS REAALY GOING TO BE HARD BECOUSE I DO LOVE HAVING SEX BUT AT THE SAME TIME I COULNDT SEE MYSELF HAVING SEX WITH ANYONE OTHER THAN HIM! since we got together his been the only man in my life i just wanna be strong and make this to years go by very fast!!! i will be 25 by the time he comes home!!!

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  79. Life with a partner in jail is hard, but he should be thankful for having a partner that is supportive of him while he is there and if you want to be faithful you can. It is your choice.
    Love is a special bond between two people not a third. Keep your chin up and the time will pass before you know it. and Good luck with your baby.

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  80. I want to thank Dr John Yi Yi for the great thing he has done in my life , he brought happiness to my life i never believe that there will be solution to my problem any more but when i met this great man the spell caster on the internet who brought me life after a spell has be casted for me and my husband who left me for the pass 4years called me and beg for forgivness and after 7days i got a new job with a very confortable salary. contact him via mail:johnyiyi@rocketmail.com

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  81. My Name is Mrs. Jane, I was married to my husband for 10 years and we were both bless with three children, living together as one love, until 2011 when things was no longer the way the was [when he lost his job]. But when he later gets a new job 6 months after, he stated sleeping outside our matrimonial home. Only for me to find out that he was having an affair with the lady that gave he the job. since that day, when i called him, he don't longer pick up my calls and he nothing since to come out good. Yet my husbands just still keep on seeing the lady. Until I met a very good friend of my who was also having a similar problem, who introduced me to a very good love spell caster. But i told her that if it has to do with things that i am not interested, but she said that it has nothing to do with pay first. but the only thing he was ask to do was just to go and buy the items to cast the spell, and that was what she did. And she gave me the spell caster e-mail address and phone number. When i contacted him, i was so surprise when he said that if i have the faith that i will get my husband back in the nest three [3] day, and off which it was really so. but i was so shock that i did not pay any thing to Prophet Osula Ogwa but my husband was on his knells begging me and the children for forgiveness. This testimony is just the price i have to pay. This man Prophet Osula Ogwa is good and he is the author of my happiness. His e-mail address:johnyiyi@rocketmail.com

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  82. My Name is JANE.I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her facebook and she changed her facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him to johnyiyi@rocketmail.com I cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck:johnyiyi@rocketmail.com.ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: johnyiyi@rocketmail.com

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  83. Hello To The World At Large,

    I am Miss Wacks.,From united states of America.I will start by saying to all that have experience heart break and also cant do with out there lover should please stop here and read up my story, So as you will know how to go solving or getting your ex back from this spell caster..AND AGAIN I WILL WANT TO ALSO TELL ALL THAT THIS SPELL CASTER I WILL WANT TO TELL THE WHOLE WORLD ABOUT IS HARMLESS AND DO NOT HAVE ANY SIDE EFFECT, BUT TO RESTORE AND GIVE YOU BACK WHAT YOU DESERVE, COS WHEN I MEET WITH THIS SPELL CASTER THAT WAS INTRODUCED TO ME BY THE WIFE OF MY BOSS IN MY WORKING PLACE, HE MADE IT CLEAR THAT HE CAN CAST SPELL ON SO MANY OTHER PROBLEMS EXCEPT IN GETTING YOUR EX OR MAKING YOUR LOVER TO LOVE YOU MORE THAT WILL SUITE YOU. Last year December, My lover was cheating on me and was not also give me the attention that a man should give to a woman,And really that was troubling my mind and tearing my heart apart to the extent that i was not concentrating in the office the way i use to before the break up by my lover.And before that incident,I always see how my boss use to love his wife so much. I was binging to think that i was not doing the right thing to him that will make him love me forever,So i really gathered my courage and went to my boss wife office to ask her the secret that made her husband love her so dearly,In the first place she refused in telling me,She asked me why i am asking her such a question,That if is it not normal for every man to love his wife.I told her the reason that made me ask her about this question,That my lover started cheating on me lately,When i knelt down before her for her to see my seriousness in this issue that i went to ask her,She opened up to me by telling me that i should not tell anybody about what she want to tell me,The wife to my boss started to say to me that she used a very powerful spell on his husband to love her,And the spell that she used is harmless, But the spell is just to make him love her and never to look for any other woman except her. I QUICKLY ASK HER HOW DID SHE GET TO KNOW THIS GREAT,POWER,DURABLE AND PERFECT WORK SPELL CASTER,she said that a friend of hers also introduce her to him. Then i also ask her how i can meet with this spell caster.SHE SAID EVERYTHING TO ME,THAT THE NAME OF THIS SPELL CASTER IS JOHN YIYI ORACLE TEMPLE.My next question to her was how can i get this wonderful spell caster,She said she is going to give me the email of the spell caster for me to contact him for my problem,Really she gave to me this spell caster email and i contacted him and explained all to him,And after every thing that needed to be done by the spell caster, In the next two days, My lover that hated me so much came to house begging for forgiveness and i was so glad that i have finally gotten my heart desire..I was so grateful to this spell caster for what he has done for my life.. So i made a promise to him that i will always continue telling the world about his wonderful work towards me and also to other that came to you before and also the people that will also get to you from my story that i narrated online now..I will want to say to the entire world that you should not cry over noting again, That there is a great man that has been helping individuals to restore there Joy and smile in there faces !! The direct email to get this man is : johnyiyi@rocketmail.com ,This is what i want to tell you all out there,That is thinking that all hope is lost ok..Thanks

    Regards,

    Miss Wacks.

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  84. NO matter the situation or how severe it seems. I believe doctor messiah of freemercytemple@yahoo.com spell can bring back a situation into real space and time and help all who need him. He is truly an inspirational helper with so much gifted powers. I recommend this email and all he has to offer. He is absolutely the best!

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  85. I am more than sorry for ever doubting you. I should have know you possess true powers when you accepted my case. I am now a believer of what you do and that there are powers we normal humans can not understand. Thank you for bringing my husband back to me. if you desire help contact this real spell caster on Templeofloveandmoney@gmail.com

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  86. My name is Diana I am from United States, I was I a relationship with Ben and we loved and cherished ourselves for 3 good years and every thing was going on smoothly but February 14, 2012 a day I can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because I answered a call from a guy that is asking me out for a date but I refused, and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and I begged him because I love him so much but he refused me I was so down cast and I felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back, a good job and favor in any of her endeavor but at first I was scared but I have to give this man a trial because I love Ben very much and I am not willing to loose him to any woman, so I ordered returning my love spell from this great spell caster that made me a happy woman again to say it all my ex came back to me with much love and a caring heart...i am testifying to this great spell caster AYELALA SHRINE. if you need his help you can contact him on ayelalashrine@gmail.com

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  87. Future Amanda Bohley! :]July 25, 2012 at 8:38 PM

    I just want to thank you so much for you opening up to others going threw the same thing. My fiance has been locked up for 7 months and its good to know that ive been doing everything i can to make this easy for both of us. Yet he wasnt here when my dad passed away which made me even more mad at him for leaving me in the first place. it was the hardest thing to do when i lost my man, a month after he was in i lost our baby that we had just found out we were about to have and then 2 months after the baby i lost my dad. this has been the hardest 7 months ive ever experienced and hopefully ever will. thank you and stay stong there are others like you!! :] good luck! contact me if i can help you with anything ant7708@gmail.com

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    1. i just wanted to let you all know...that things worked out very well..well i should have told u this out for along time..as a matter of a week ago..but i wanted to give this comment out when i was fully confident that things are working out... Brianna is back wid me..our relationship is just like before the first time we met, do you need his help here is the man that help me email address wiseindividualspell@gmail.com to contact him.

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  88. My name is Mr Luis Bright,i live in Mexico,and I’m happily married with a lovely wife and three children.I had a very big problem with my wife few months ago,to the extent that she even packed her things away from me and my kids for almost 5 months,and i tried all my possible best and effort to bring her back,but all to no avail.I discussed it with a very good friend of mine,and he gave me an advice concerning a spell caster,and i quote.“There’s someone who can handle your situation,he’s always ready and able to do anything related to spell casting,i will like you to contact him with his email,which is as follows.”AYELALA SHRINE”. I never believed in spell casting,but he convinced me and i had no choice than to follow his advice,because i never dream of loosing my lovely wife.And that’s how i contacted him with his email address,and i discussed with him and so surprisingly,he told me that I’ll get my wife back a day after.so i never believed,until when i got home,the next day,my wife called me to inform me that she was coming back…..So amazing!! That’s how i got my wife back through spell casting and our relationship was now stronger than how it was before.One of the price i was asked to pay was to tell it to people around me that problems like this,can always be solved by “AYELALA SHRINE”. So! my advice for you out there is to visit this same website,and tell him your problems too,if you are in any condition related to love issue or getting your ex back,to have a happy family.THANKS……ayelalashrine@gmail.com

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  89. My name is Mr Luis Bright,i live in Mexico,and I’m happily married with a lovely wife and three children.I had a very big problem with my wife few months ago,to the extent that she even packed her things away from me and my kids for almost 5 months,and i tried all my possible best and effort to bring her back,but all to no avail.I discussed it with a very good friend of mine,and he gave me an advice concerning a spell caster,and i quote.“There’s someone who can handle your situation,he’s always ready and able to do anything related to spell casting,i will like you to contact him with his email,which is as follows.”AYELALA SHRINE”. I never believed in spell casting,but he convinced me and i had no choice than to follow his advice,because i never dream of loosing my lovely wife.And that’s how i contacted him with his email address,and i discussed with him and so surprisingly,he told me that I’ll get my wife back a day after.so i never believed,until when i got home,the next day,my wife called me to inform me that she was coming back…..So amazing!! That’s how i got my wife back through spell casting and our relationship was now stronger than how it was before.One of the price i was asked to pay was to tell it to people around me that problems like this,can always be solved by “AYELALA SHRINE”. So! my advice for you out there is to visit this same website,and tell him your problems too,if you are in any condition related to love issue or getting your ex back,to have a happy family.THANKS……ayelalashrine@gmail.com

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  90. the only true spell caster i have tested and worked
    I have been married for 10 years, and my marriage was great, but after years our romance was going down everyday. There was no romance. I was scared that some one else could get in between. this spell caster i met on templeofancientancestors@gmail.com helped us out. In just days, passion, and romance was again in our house. Our marriage is stronger than ever.

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    1. The spell I order for a better relationship with my boyfriend has worked wonders. Dr. Ogun really does know what he's doing. I saw results within 3 days and it's continuing, so I owe Dr. Ogun a lot. he's wonderful and he cares, he contacts you back if you have any questions and more importantly HIS SPELLS WORK. thank you Dr. Ogun. I love ya, and will use you again for sure. He's great, everyone should try him!!! Via Email: Templeofloveandmoney@gmail.com

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  91. Thank u for your story I told my boyfriend how I feel he kept asking me what I said I don't think we really realize how much feeling we had for each other

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  92. hi i am here to spread the message on how i got my ex back....my relationship crashed after a brief fight that we had about my drinking and late night habit.....i was left devastated and depressed....until i came across a love caster experience post on a blog..i tried the spell caster who prescribe his fees....and after some days she came back knocking on my door......here is his email kwaletemple@gmail.com You can try him he is real spell caster.... or call on +2348056141089

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    1. "I want to tell everybody that my Love Spell works very fast. I couldn't believe when after 6 month without seeing my boyfriend he just came back to me saying he still loves me. wiseindividualspell@gmail.com is an incredible person, try it!”.

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  93. my name is kawat am 27yeas old am from Spain, I lost my boyfriend for another lady, and i was really confuse to the extent i don't know what to do before i come across shanospelltemple@gmail .com which help me get him back, the most beautiful things in it is that it was not stressful and no asking off unnecessary question and it was very easy and save for me above all is cam. and my love now is more sweeter than the way it was before just because of the spell he caste on him. thanks DR Shano.you are powerful.

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  94. my boyfriend is in jail now he turned himself in two weeks ago we knew he might do prison time because he was on probation and didnt do that was asked.he has a 1-3 year but he has only do up to ten months,its very hard but i can only b there for him we been together four years next month and have a one year old boy together,im trying best i can to stay strong its very hard but i can only stay strong,we write each other n i visit him twice a week,if ur willing to b there for your loved one u have to mean it n show support

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  95. My name is Mr Luis Bright,i live in Mexico,and I’m happily married with a lovely wife and three children.I had a very big problem with my wife few months ago,to the extent that she even packed her things away from me and my kids for almost 5 months,and i tried all my possible best and effort to bring her back,but all to no avail.I discussed it with a very good friend of mine,and he gave me an advice concerning a spell caster,and i quote.“There’s someone who can handle your situation,he’s always ready and able to do anything related to spell casting,i will like you to contact him with his email,which is as follows.”AYELALA SHRINE”. I never believed in spell casting,but he convinced me and i had no choice than to follow his advice,because i never dreamt of loosing my lovely wife.And that’s how i contacted him with his email address,and i discussed with him and so surprisingly,he told me that I’ll get my wife back a day after.so i never believed,until when i got home,the next day,my wife called me to inform me that she was coming back…..So amazing!! That’s how i got my wife back through spell casting and our relationship was now stronger than how it was before.One of the price i was asked to pay was to tell it to people around me that problems like this,can always be solved by “AYELALA SHRINE”. So! my advice for you out there is to visit this same website,and tell him your problems too,if you are in any condition related to love issue or getting your ex back,to have a happy family.THANKS……ayelalashrine@gmail.com

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  96. MY Heart BLEEDS AND IT RUNS DEEP, THE PAIN THE TEARS THE LONLINESS. MY HUSBAND JUST GOT A YEAR AND WILL BE TAKEN AWAY FROM ME.. WE HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOR YEARS AND ONLY BEEN MARRIED FOUR...NEGATIVE FRIENDS FAMILY ARE ALL AROUND ME AS WELL...HE IS AND ALWAYS HAS BEEN MY SOULMATE. ROMEO AND JULIET HE DIES I DIE...WE HAVE NEVER BEEN APART AND THIS HAS GOT TO BE THE HARDEST THING I EVER ENDURED EVEN LABOR PAINS WAS NOT THIS PAINFUL.. THE MISSING HIM, THINGS WE HAVE DONE..NOW WE ARE ALONE ON THIS JOURNEY. I WILL WAIT AS LONG AS IT TAKES THE HELL WITH THE NEGATIVE..YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT YOU HAD TILL IT IS GONE..WE CAN DO THIS.. THE TEARS DON'T GO AWAY,MY HEART BREAKS OVER THE LOVE WE SHARE...I NEED HIM AND I KNOW HE NEEDS ME.AND MINE IS JUST BEGINNING....

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  97. I had been sick for years now, I lost all of my possession due to this illness, every member of my family became tired of me because to them i was now a liability, i bless the day i got introduced to this fellow at John Yi Yi Temple who uses this email address: johnyiyi@rocketmail.com when he requested for 350 dollars to buy the items for the spell to cure me of my illness i felt he was a spam then i told the person who introduced me to him and she said to me that she paid 500 dollars to save her marriage so i was convinced to pay the money and i did two days after , he cast the spell i was cured of all of the diseases that i was attacked with. And also he said to me that my husband that had ran away will be disturbed to come back home to be with me and exactly what really took place...This man at johnyiyi@rocketmail.com is just so good at his spell work. CONTACT US TODAY VIA EMAIL:johnyiyi@rocketmail.com

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  98. My name is Mr Frank Silver,I live in Mexico,and I’m happily married with a lovely wife and three children. I had a very big problem with my wife few months ago,to the extent that she even packed her things away from me and my kids for almost 5 months,and i tried all my possible best and effort to bring her back,but all to no avail.I discussed it with a very good friend of mine,and he gave me an advice concerning a spell caster,and i quote.“There’s someone who can handle your situation,he’s always ready and able to do anything related to spell casting,i will like you to contact him with his email,which is as follows.”John Yi Yi Great Oracle Temple Solution”. I never believed in spell casting,but he convinced me and i had no choice than to follow his advice,because i never dreamt of loosing my lovely wife.And that’s how i contacted him with his email address,and i discussed with him and so surprisingly,he told me that I’ll get my wife back a day after.so i never believed,until when i got home,the next day,my wife called me to inform me that she was coming back…..So amazing!! That’s how i got my wife back through spell casting and our relationship was now stronger than how it was before.One of the price i was asked to pay was to tell it to people around me that problems like this,can always be solved by “John Yi Yi Great Oracle Temple Solution”. So! my advice for you out there is to visit this same website,and tell him your problems too,if you are in any condition related to love issue or getting your ex back,to have a happy family.THANKS.... HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS :johnyiyi@rocketmail.com.. CONTACT HIM TODAY VIA THIS EMAIL ADDRESS: johnyiyi@rocketmail.com AS HIS POWERS ARE SO STRONG AND VERY EFFECTIVE AND HAS NO BAD EFFECT INSTEAD IT HAVE A VERY GOOD RESULT AFTER CASTING THE SPELL.

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  99. I had been sick for years now, I lost all of my possession due to this illness, every member of my family became tired of me because to them i was now a liability, i bless the day i got introduced to this fellow at John Yi Yi Temple who uses this email address: johnyiyi@rocketmail.com when he requested for 350 dollars to buy the items for the spell to cure me of my illness i felt he was a spam then i told the person who introduced me to him and she said to me that she paid 500 dollars to save her marriage so i was convinced to pay the money and i did two days after , he cast the spell i was cured of all of the diseases that i was attacked with. And also he said to me that my husband that had ran away will be disturbed to come back home to be with me and exactly what really took place...This man at johnyiyi@rocketmail.com is just so good at his spell work. CONTACT US TODAY VIA EMAIL:johnyiyi@rocketmail.com

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  100. Hello To The World At Large,

    I am Miss Wacks.,From united states of America.I will start by saying to all that have experience heart break and also cant do with out there lover should please stop here and read up my story, So as you will know how to go solving or getting your ex back from this spell caster..AND AGAIN I WILL WANT TO ALSO TELL ALL THAT THIS SPELL CASTER I WILL WANT TO TELL THE WHOLE WORLD ABOUT IS HARMLESS AND DO NOT HAVE ANY SIDE EFFECT, BUT TO RESTORE AND GIVE YOU BACK WHAT YOU DESERVE, COS WHEN I MEET WITH THIS SPELL CASTER THAT WAS INTRODUCED TO ME BY THE WIFE OF MY BOSS IN MY WORKING PLACE, HE MADE IT CLEAR THAT HE CAN CAST SPELL ON SO MANY OTHER PROBLEMS EXCEPT IN GETTING YOUR EX OR MAKING YOUR LOVER TO LOVE YOU MORE THAT WILL SUITE YOU. Last year December, My lover was cheating on me and was not also give me the attention that a man should give to a woman,And really that was troubling my mind and tearing my heart apart to the extent that i was not concentrating in the office the way i use to before the break up by my lover.And before that incident,I always see how my boss use to love his wife so much. I was binging to think that i was not doing the right thing to him that will make him love me forever,So i really gathered my courage and went to my boss wife office to ask her the secret that made her husband love her so dearly,In the first place she refused in telling me,She asked me why i am asking her such a question,That if is it not normal for every man to love his wife.I told her the reason that made me ask her about this question,That my lover started cheating on me lately,When i knelt down before her for her to see my seriousness in this issue that i went to ask her,She opened up to me by telling me that i should not tell anybody about what she want to tell me,The wife to my boss started to say to me that she used a very powerful spell on his husband to love her,And the spell that she used is harmless, But the spell is just to make him love her and never to look for any other woman except her. I QUICKLY ASK HER HOW DID SHE GET TO KNOW THIS GREAT,POWER,DURABLE AND PERFECT WORK SPELL CASTER,she said that a friend of hers also introduce her to him. Then i also ask her how i can meet with this spell caster.SHE SAID EVERYTHING TO ME,THAT THE NAME OF THIS SPELL CASTER IS JOHN YIYI ORACLE TEMPLE.My next question to her was how can i get this wonderful spell caster,She said she is going to give me the email of the spell caster for me to contact him for my problem,Really she gave to me this spell caster email and i contacted him and explained all to him,And after every thing that needed to be done by the spell caster, In the next two days, My lover that hated me so much came to house begging for forgiveness and i was so glad that i have finally gotten my heart desire..I was so grateful to this spell caster for what he has done for my life.. So i made a promise to him that i will always continue telling the world about his wonderful work towards me and also to other that came to you before and also the people that will also get to you from my story that i narrated online now..I will want to say to the entire world that you should not cry over noting again, That there is a great man that has been helping individuals to restore there Joy and smile in there faces !! The direct email to get this man is : johnyiyi@rocketmail.com ,This is what i want to tell you all out there,That is thinking that all hope is lost ok..Thanks

    Regards,

    Miss Wacks

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  101. My name is Mr Frank Silver,I live in Mexico,and I’m happily married with a lovely wife and three children. I had a very big problem with my wife few months ago,to the extent that she even packed her things away from me and my kids for almost 5 months,and i tried all my possible best and effort to bring her back,but all to no avail.I discussed it with a very good friend of mine,and he gave me an advice concerning a spell caster,and i quote.“There’s someone who can handle your situation,he’s always ready and able to do anything related to spell casting,i will like you to contact him with his email,which is as follows.”John Yi Yi Great Oracle Temple Solution”. I never believed in spell casting,but he convinced me and i had no choice than to follow his advice,because i never dreamt of loosing my lovely wife.And that’s how i contacted him with his email address,and i discussed with him and so surprisingly,he told me that I’ll get my wife back a day after.so i never believed,until when i got home,the next day,my wife called me to inform me that she was coming back…..So amazing!! That’s how i got my wife back through spell casting and our relationship was now stronger than how it was before.One of the price i was asked to pay was to tell it to people around me that problems like this,can always be solved by “John Yi Yi Great Oracle Temple Solution”. So! my advice for you out there is to visit this same website,and tell him your problems too,if you are in any condition related to love issue or getting your ex back,to have a happy family.THANKS.... HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS :johnyiyi@rocketmail.com.. CONTACT HIM TODAY VIA THIS EMAIL ADDRESS: johnyiyi@rocketmail.com AS HIS POWERS ARE SO STRONG AND VERY EFFECTIVE AND HAS NO BAD EFFECT INSTEAD IT HAVE A VERY GOOD RESULT AFTER CASTING THE SPELL.

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  102. I had been sick for years now, I lost all of my possession due to this illness, every member of my family became tired of me because to them i was now a liability, i bless the day i got introduced to this fellow at John Yi Yi Temple who uses this email address: johnyiyi@rocketmail.com when he requested for 350 dollars to buy the items for the spell to cure me of my illness i felt he was a spam then i told the person who introduced me to him and she said to me that she paid 500 dollars to save her marriage so i was convinced to pay the money and i did two days after , he cast the spell i was cured of all of the diseases that i was attacked with. And also he said to me that my husband that had ran away will be disturbed to come back home to be with me and exactly what really took place...This man at johnyiyi@rocketmail.com is just so good at his spell work. CONTACT HIM TODAY VIA EMAIL:johnyiyi@rocketmail.com

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  103. I came to this website looking for ADULT ADVICE on how to keep the "So called bedroom life" fun and alive while your husband is in prison, and I see that the majority of these "Bloggers" are apparently here to tell women how stupid they are for loving a man in prison, or to brag about a "Fake Prophet Harry". If all of you are grown ass women and men you should be embarrassed for yourselves. And for the women who truly are here seeking advice for very real problems, I'm sorry you ended up here. My husband is in prison and fixing to receive anywhere from 14 to 20 years Federal time, a completely ridiculous and undeserved sentence for the crime committed. I intend to wait faithfully however long it takes, he is a good man who did some dishonest things but he has ALWAYS been faithful to me and our family and taken care of us no matter what. I am 110% positive if I had been the one in prison he would remain faithful to me as well.. Their are a lot of prisoners who use these "relationships" with different women just to pass the time and honestly if you have to come to a website to ask strangers their thoughts on YOUR MAN? Chances are you already know that answer and are searching for an excuse to ignore the behavior. Love is blind ladies, that can be a great thing but it can also be a bad situation. Good luck to you all.<3

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  104. My beautiful fiance went to prison for her first arrest at age 29, we had been together for 5 years at the time. We made it through 25 months of incarceration and remained madly in love.She is college educated and of the upper class, yet she remained intact and even grew emotionally through her prison term. We suffered through each day of separation. Two months ago, as a first time offender, she was released on work/temp release. The apartment was approved for a furlough and she spent weekends at home and got a job. It was wonderful. We had the greatest weekends and I showered her with new clothes and gifts. Then came Sandy. Bayview Correctional facility, work release facility on 20th and 11th avenue in Chelsea, was in the 'A 'evacuation zone and she happened to be on one of her nights back at the facility when they were evacuated. The prison is on the lower West side of Manhattan and was severely water damaged- boiler and electrical damage that could reportedly take months to fix. My love has bean back upstate for ten days and we are fighting for a 7 and 0 (7 days out) from her facility. She should not be punished for the natural disaster. Of the 153 women moved back upstate, she is one of only three who were working. Most were General Population Medium security. The women on work release who work and happened to be home the night of the evacuation were granted immediate 7 and 0 so they are home and working. Her job is holding the spot as long as necessary as they liked her work ethic (she was there daily for 6 weeks). This has been hard to swallow and her CR date is ten months away. I pray DOC grants her what she has worked so hard to attain. She completed CASAT, She never got a ticket in 25 months. She helps others. Please pray for us and all those in pain and who have lost loved ones from Sandy. I love her so much and have held a life together for us, with a business I run and a wonderful home. I am a loyal man. She deserves a good life now and should not have to CR out ten months from now.

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  105. I am also a prison wife who is going thru a similiar situation..But I will continue to stand by my husbands side no matter what..even though it's a very hard process and i do have my ups and downs and I always express to him how i feel in regards to him being in prison and how it affects me in so many ways..But one thing I do know is that he will be released soon hopefully sometime next year..until then I will continue to keep busy on a daily basis, keep writing and visiting my man!!1

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  106. My boyfriend got sent to Prison 5 days ago. He is in an Austrian prison. We have been living together for over 18 months. I was already planning to stay in Asutria over the winter and i leave at the end of this week. He is only allowed 1 phone call a week, and that phone call goes to his family not me so I can't even speak to him. I sent him a letter and i'm very worried about his mental state and that he will commit suicide. I travel the world for a living and now i cant do that anymore. Does anyone have any advice. I have no one to speak to. I havn't slept properly or eaten as my stomach is so unsettled. Is there a limit of mail you can send. can i send him a CD of 'our' songs? I don't know anything about this situation. Please help.

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  107. my husband and i used to sleep in the same crib together as babies.as my mother and his mother were best friends living together.as the years past he and his mother moved away and my mother and i stayed.ten years or more passed and i grew up without my biological father as he did not want to be in my life.when i was 18 i met my father and he became a big part in my life,its was our first christmas 2005 when all the family got together and there that very day i met my future husband through my step brothers,but i was with my sons father at the time who abused me cheated on me for 4 years straight.im very faithful i do not believe in cheating but throughout the 4 years trav and i kept in touch through internet just as friends.after my relatinship was over with my son and daughters father i then found the sweetest man i could have ever met untill we moved in together he was very controlling we had a son together.and i still being very faithful stayed another 3 years through it all.jan 25 2012 i said this is it so when he left for work i moved out without even a note. jan 27 2012 my brother texted me out of the blue and asked if trav could text me.i said of course....thats it we were hit lol..he came the next nite had dinner just talked and talked stayed up all nite talking i knew it was meant to be it was the greastest feeling in the world.i had never felt that way before.that night i learned that he had loved me since hello:) we have been together every since..he was sentenced to 22 months in jail but with me knowing he was facing time i married him in the jail through glass!we love eachother unconditionally and as i have said many times god brought us together and our hearts beat as one.the visits calls and letters are our dates, we make them special and we cherish them each word and each action is a offering from our hearts...if its meant to be then its gonna last...its not easy but with lots of caring words and emotional love we make it:) its only been 2 months since he went in and he has 4 months down so right now we have 12months left,when i feel breaking i just think about how good he is to myself and my children by other men.if he can love my children as his and love me the way he has and does then hey im not going anywhere.

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  108. My husband has been in jail since Nov.7 and I have 4 children with him. This is my first time of being by myself in 13 years. I also am going to wait for him. He has a 6 yr sentence for state and has a federal case that is yet to be determined. I have learned so much already. Like how to depend on myself and not others. I write him but not as often as I should. After reading this I have hope and will keep in touch with him more. I love him and the kids know why he is in there and they understand. I try my hardest not to breakdown in front of them but look at them as they look just like him and think about our future. And how it's going to get better. We started a photo book for him and journals telling how each day was so he has plenty to keep up on. He is also going to miss graduations and all of that. Our kids are 15, 12, 10 and 9. I just wish i had someone to talk too.

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  109. My story is like many of you. My fiance and I have been together for 7 years. We are best friends and perfect for each other. We've had our issues, like any couple, but we've always been able to work through them.

    In summer of 2011 our home was raided by federal officers and my fiance was found in possession of something illegal. That day started us on the downward legal spiral that we're in now. A year and 3 months after our home was raided, the finally took him into custody. It was such a shock because we were to attend a court hearing and our lawyer assured us that he wouldn't be taken into custody. He had been on home detention because we bonded him out a month before, and he was cooperative and didn't do anything wrong to violate his home detention. Unfortunately, that didn't matter to the judge and he was taken away. We weren't prepared, so we didn't even get to say goodbye. That was Sept. 21 of 2012, and he has been awaiting his official sentencing ever since.

    He's been gone for about 5 months, and it has been the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with. Neither of us has ever committed a crime or been to jail before and neither have any of our family, so this is all completely new to us. The thing I hate the most is how badly he and the other inmates are sometimes treated - like they're not even really human beings anymore. I know that he committed a crime, but he isn't a violent person, he took responsibility for his actions and he's been completely cooperative from the very start. He didn't have a criminal record before this either. None of that seems to matter though, not in the eyes of those running the jail or the court system. We both see people come and go who have done MUCH worse things than he did or repeatedly violated the blessing of parole or probation that they were given, and they're let out as if they did nothing or given much less time than he might be given. It's a really messed up system and I hate that he has to be a part of it now. He tried so hard to be a good person, to help others and to live his life the right way. He wasn't perfect, but he isn't a career criminal either.

    We've been told that we're looking at possibly 6 or more years. What's so crazy about that is his crime did not involve drugs, weapons or hurting anyone else. There was essentially no victim and no one was put in danger by anything he did, yet he could possibly serve more time than many child molesters get in our state. I know that being in there is really starting to get to him and I wish I could do something more to help lift his spirits. I haven't missed a single visitation since he was sent away, we talk on the phone almost every day and we write each other occasionally. Its becoming too expensive to talk and visit as often as we do though, so I'm praying that God will provide a way for me to be able to afford our communication. Our phone calls and visits are really all that are keeping us sane right now, after all.

    I'm so sorry that the rest of you have to go through this. At least for those of you whose men are serving 2 years or less, count your blessings. It can feel like an eternity, but at least it's not 6 or 7 or 8 years like we might be looking at. If they really do this to him, I'd be nearly 40 by the time he's released. With my family's medical history we wouldn't even be able to have children anymore. :(

    I am praying that God will help to see us through this. It has gotten a little easier, but the hardest thing is seeing all of my friends and family go on with their lives, get married, have children...and I feel so stuck. My life is on hold because the man I love has been taken away, and many of the dreams I once had may never come to be. I don't know that for certain and I have faith that God will step in and balance this situation with some fairness, but being human I still worry.

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  110. I hope the rest of you find a way to get through it and are able to find some measure of peace. Stay strong, and don't be too hard on your men if they seem to falter in their feelings for you. Not being in their position, we will never know what they are going through or how hard it is for them. I'm sure all kinds of things are mixed up in their heads. Just be patient and supportive and give them some time to work things out. If it's true love and meant to be, they'll come back to their senses. Just hang in their and never give up on them while they need you, and never lose hope. It's all we have right now...

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  111. I met my boyfriend while I was in prison. We were both on inmate fire crews. Its a beautiful story. I know God put us in eachothers path at just the right time. I got out seven months ago, and he still has a year and a half. He's worth the wait! Our families are supportive. Its just so crazy! I've never loved anyone in this way before. Its so hard sometimes! I just try to stay busy and set goals fir myself. He drives me to achive thoes goals. I've come a long way, and will be fighting fire this summer. I love that I have found someone that brings out the best in me.

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  112. My fiance has been sentence to 44months in prison 3 n a half years i have my good n my bad days just get mad sometime cause he's gonna miss out on our daughter growing up i try to send him pictures of us. We talk on the phone too.. God is in the mist of it all.

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  113. Hey, all your comments are stories are similar to mine. But the difference is when he went in I was a disaster, I started using lots of drugs to forget that he was no longer by my side, for the first 6 months of his sentence I was a disaster, but he kept on phoning, writing letters and trying to give me courage(it shoukd be the other way round!) Now I'm better, I accepted that he will come out in another 2 years and we will be a family once again. We have a 2 year old daughter, and I realized that not he needed me, but also my daughter. She ended up without a father, I don't want her to be without a mother as well. You have to be courageuos and remeber that LOVE WILL CONQUER ALL!!

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  114. ive not been faithful. when he went in i said screw it im divorcing him. but after i slept with someone else i was like yuk how could i do that. i guess it happems but it made me realize how much its him i miss and that i am stronger to wait for him hes doing a year and its only been two months. i write all the time but im not ready to visit him. i worry he will screw up again when he gets out...all drug stuff..but hes never been in jail for longer than two weeks n hes hating it. i figure if he gets out n makes the same mistake then ill be able to walk away knowing that i tried to stand by him but hes too weak for me. this is def hard and a gamble n if i wasnt married iight not feel the way i do..but marriage means commitment thru thick n thin so heres the thick of it...ill bide my time while he does his..and ill be here with open arms

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  115. My boyfriend and I have been together every chance we get since he moved to new york fro me. And he was arrested two days before our anniversary for a crime he didn't do, but he has a past and I understood that. But it hurts to see a innocent man in jail for the past month.. he just started telling me the other day he doesn't want me to wait for him or waste my love on him. But how can't I, he turned out to be the love of my life &moved for me and started all over for. I could never leave him or give up on him because he's the one. This journal really helped but I'm still sickly worried about him &I miss&love him like hell. I pray so much its insane.

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  116. Hi, i'm 16 years old. My 26 year old boyfriend since 2 years ago is facing almost a year in prison. What do I do? I feel really bad, it's like i am living trough the pain with him. He is the best guy I have ever met. He is not guilty but this is Iceland, It really fucks you over, the law here is fucked up, my advise to you, DON'T COME TO ICELAND IF YOU ARE A FOREIGNER, ICELANDIC PEOPLE HATE FOREIGNERS. Hope I can get through life without him. It's really hard to be okay when i already put my life on his shoulders, when he left, i just feel lost.

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  117. I am currently in the same situation as a lot of you ladies are in. I am 27 years old and my fiance has been in prison for the past 8 months. He has 2 years and 8 months to go. We have been together for almost 3 years. I love him but I fear that he will get out and do the same stuff again. He has been to prison before and he is constantly battling a drug problem. I am currently working and going to school to become a lawyer. I love him but I am confused. There have been other guys trying to talk to me but I always ignore them. I just dont know what to do... Any advice???? Thanks

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  118. My boyfriend is in jail for around three more years. I've waited and wrote him for one so far. He was arrested at 18 and I was 17. We are soul mates and yes it's hard ladies but you can do it. If there's any doubt in your mind after confronting your loved one who's in jail that a)they're using you or b) they are gonna fuck around when they get out. Don't wait and just leave, if it's meant to happen after he gets out it will. Follow your gut!! Not your heart. Anyways just thought I'd give my input.

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  119. Thank You so much this helped alot...My Fiance is gone now its only for a year but im scared and sad because I am only 19 and pregnant with our son :"( He went today and the baby is due next month...As hard as it is we are going to do everything to stay together and make everything work out because we are in love :") Thank You.

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  120. There has been so many positives to my boyfriends arrest because of his past we can now draw a line under everything, i have changed him. Since he has been in prison i have got to know his daughter via text and phone calls. You must think i am mad for thinking there are positives. The thing is we met just over a year ago (luckly we got to celebrate our 1 year together) we were planning on moving in together and was looking for somewhere to live but it is so lucky we didnt find anywhere because me and my children would have been on the streets because i would have had to stop my benefits. I love him so much i know he is my soul mate. I have very good support around me, tho not my mum which is a shame because i really need her now but instead of supporting me she shes not intetested in anything. If i can do this so can anyone who is madly in love.

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  121. My husband is in prison as well.. But i just found out he was cheating on me our entire 4 year marriage..
    He of course is sorry.
    Begging me not to leave him..
    Im madly in love with my husband but im having trouble now believing anything he says..

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    1. Wow! I am in a very similar situation. I am madly in love with my bf, he got locked up 4 months ago. He cheated on me last year and I ended things with him although i didnt want to since I loved him so much. We eventually worked things out, I gave him a second chance as he promised to never hurt me like that again. He also swore that he was done with the other woman and had no contact at all with her. Our relationship was wonderful ever since, we were closer than ever and he treated me like a princess. He got arrested for something he did a while back when he lived in Florida and he was extradited there. The calls are ridiculously expensive since I live up North and of course visits are impossible. But we speak as often as we can and write a lot of letters back and forth. A few days ago I received a phone call from the woman he cheated on me with, she told me that he never ended things with her, they have been a couple since last year. She claims that he slept at her house several nights a week which is very possible since I work overnights. She said she found out about him still being with me a few weeks before he got locked up, he confessed to her because she was suspicious for several reasons (long story). He told her he was confused and loved us both. I confronted him in a letter and he denies everything! He swears she is lying and he would never do such a thing to me, I am his everything and he is begging me not to leave him. He is sticking to his story that he has had nothing to do with her and that shes crazy. But since he did it before how can I believe him? The fact that hes in jail is a nightmare in itself and now this? So im curious, what are you going to do?

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  122. THE GREAT DR OKUTA WHO HELP ME TO BRING MY EX HUSBAND BACK TO ME. via okutaspellhome@gmail.com

    Am Karrie Sheridan from USA, am happily married with three lovely kids Jennifer brown and Westley, my husband and i have been the best couple since we got married, we have been living happily for over 10 years , recently my husband started behaving strangely he hardly laugh and spend time with the family as usual,he comes back from work late at night, i knew something was wrong i tried talking with him any time i try asking him what going on he angrily keep up his car key and drove off, i was so devastated 4 months later i heard my husband have started dating the lady he dated before we got married,i was so upset ,i called my Mom and get her informed my husband is cheating on me, honestly i love my husband he mean the whole word to me, my mom called him and asked him why he have decided to destroy his home, my husband confess to my mom that the lady he is seeing they had blood covenant , my husband said he thought the lady was death that was his reason of marrying me. my Mom called me and explained everything to my in details i feinted, when i got back my coma my husband came to visit me at the hospital i was hoping he have come to apologies for the pain he cost me, surprisingly he told my there is nothing he can do he have to go back to the lady he had blood covenant with. all my hope was done i have nothing living for i was so confuse i wanted to kill my self but god was go kind my mom saw me taking some poison substance she hurrying called the doctor luckily of me the poison have not go through all my body system i was operated on . i got discharge after one week, my husband change his mobile number i could not contact him over 2 year one faithful Sunday i was watching a TV show when a young pretty lady Anna was testifying on the television how Dr okuta brought back her lover who broke up with her over years back to her, Dr okuta telephone number was display on the screen i took the number and call Dr okuta, Dr okuta never asked me for money he assured me that no matter what my husband will be back to me within the next 24 hours after he have finish casting the love spell on him, Dr okuta required for my husband picture which i hurrying send to him, Dr okuta never knew anything about me he told me how my husband left me i was surprise he assured me that once he break the blood covenant my husband got into with the lady he will cast a love spell on my husband within the next 24 hours i will be signing a new song, i lay my hope on Dr okuta surprisingly after braking the blood covenant and casting the love spell on my husband i got a call from my husband asking how are my doing today, i was happy because over years i have not heard from him, to my greatest surprise my lovely husband came to my house the next day begging on his knee asking me to forgive him he is very sorry i was so happy, i bought me a new rang-rover jeep, today am the happiest woman on earth because of Dr okuta what more can i say, Thanks drokuta i will testify to the whole wide world for what you have done to restore my life my marriage. i advise everybody going through divorce heart break to contact the great powerful love spell caster on okutaspellhome@gmail.com your solution is sure with dr okuta.

    Name:Karrie Sheridan
    Country:USA

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  123. My true life story, My husband is back! After 6 years of marriage, my husband left me with two kids. I felt like my life is about to end i was falling apart. a friend of my introduce me to this great man Dr Orissa, I contacted him I explained my problem to him, he solve the problem peacefully In just 24 hours my husband come back home to show me and our kids much love and apologize for all the pain he have bring to the family. thanks Dr Orissa you solved my issues, and we are even happier than before you are the best spell caster, Dr Orissa i really appreciate the love spell you casted for me to get my husband back in my life i will keep sharing more testimonies to people about your good work Thank very much Dr Orissa.in-case you are in any problem you can contact him via email;orissatemple@yahoo.com

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  124. My boyfriend and I have been on and off again for 7yrs when he came home last he told me he was done with it he wanted to be together so we mad it official but form him being in prison most his life he want Ed to explore females which he did then I became pregnant.i left him alone until I felt as Jo he need to know shock was hard because he always came over whenever he wanted but he said no matter who he dealt with I was number 1and they knew it.whwn I did finally tell him I was pregnant he changes for me wanted to be a terrific father for his first son until one day he was on his way home to me and was pulled over searched and his gun was found we both knew when he made his first phone call he wasn't coming home they have my love 12yrs with 4auspended 12yrs hearing that pregnant emotional and so fed up I wanted to just walk away to hell with him cause I felt he left me alone to raise his son bymyself. But the moment I saw my son when he was born I knew I still had him around the light skin big hands little head cocky body he is his fathers 100% and I know me and my love will be back together again the phone calls and letters brighten my day waiting for him is what I look forward to for our family

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  125. I just want to share my experience and testimony here.. I was married for 6 years to my husband and all of a sudden, another woman came into the picture.. he started hailing me and he was abusive..but I still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost…then he filed for divorce..my whole life was turning apart and I didn’t know what to do..he moved out of the house and abandoned the kids.. so someone told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster…so I decided to try it reluctantly..although I didn’t believe in all those things… then when he did the special prayers and spell, after 3days, my husband came back and was pleading..he had realized his mistakes..i just couldn’t believe it.. anyways we are back together now and we are happy..in case anyone needs this man, his email address Akwukespiritualtemple@gmail.com his spells is for a better life. again his email is Akwukespiritualtemple@gmail.com

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  126. who ever is reading this testimony today should please celebrate with me and my family because it all started like a joke to some people and others said it was impossible. my name is Michael i live in Chicago i am happily married with two kids and a lovely wife something terrible happen to my family along the line, i lost my job and my wife packed out of my house because i was unable to take care of her and my kids at that particular time. i manage all through five years, no wife to support me to take care of the children and there come a faithful day that i will never forget in my life i met an old friend who i explain all my difficulties to, and he took me to a spell caster and and the name of the temple is called, DR Okundonor, i was assure that everything will be fine and my wife will come back to me after the wonderful work of Dr Okundonorgreatspell, my wife came back to me and today i am one of the richest man in my country. i advice you if you have any problem email him with this email: dr.okundonorgreatspell@gmail.com and you will have the best result. take things for granted and it will be take from you. i wish you all the best.

    Contact: dr.okundonorgreatspell@gmail.com

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  127. Dear friends, i had a problem with my girl friend 2year ago, which lead to our broke up. when she broke up with me, i was not my self again, i fill so empty inside me. until a friend of my Walt pen told me about a spell caster who helped him in the same problem too. i email the spell caster and i told him my problem and i did what he asked of me, to cut the long story short. before i knew what was happening my girl friend gave me a call and told me that she was coming back to me and was so joyous to have her back to me. we have two kids together and we are happy with our selves. thanks to greatoracletemplesolution@live.com for saving my relationship and for also saving others own too. continue your good work the great spell caster.

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  128. DR AGUBA is the only Dr who could ever get my HIV-AIDS cured with his healing spell, i have tried almost everything but i couldn't find any solution on my disease, despite all these happening to me, i always spend alot to buy a HIV drugs from hospital and taking some several medications but no relieve, until one day i was just browsing on the internet when i come across a great post of !Michelle! who truly said that she was been diagnose with HIV and was healed that very week through the help of these great powerful healing spell doctor, sometime i really wonder why people called him Dr AGUBA, i never knew it was all because of the great and perfect work that he has been doing that is causing all this. so i quickly contacted him, and he ask me some few questions and he said a thing i will never forget that anyone who contacted him is ! always getting his or her healing in just 6 hours after doing all he ask you, so i was amazed all the time i heard that from him, so i did all things only to see that at the very day which he said i will be healed, all the strength that has left me before rush back and i becomes very strong and healthy, this disease almost kills my life all because of me, so i will to hospital to give the final test to the disease and the doctor said i am HIV negative, i am very amazed and happy about the healing DR AGUBA gave to me from the ancient part of Africa, you can email him now for your own healing too at: agubaspelltemple@yahoo.com thank you sir for healing me from HIV. contact his phone number +2348169457829 - See more at:

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  129. HELLO TO YOU ALL OUT HERE,

    My name is Denise i never believe that my EX will ever come back to me after all that happens,well all thanks to DOCTOR SAKURA,i married to one MR Williams we got married at our early age of 20 we love our selves dearly,but after 30 years of our marriage my husband change and turn into some thing else it look like i married to a stranger,i was confuse so i don't know what to do my children was aware of what is going on between both of us,they talk to there father and still yet he continued i later found out that my husband is seeing some one else i found out who this person is i discover she was just a little girl that is up to be my daughter's age mate,she followed my husband just because of money and she was far younger than me could you believe my husband said to my face that am too old for him he need some one younger in his life that he needs a divorce he said to me is all over that he have nothing to do with me any longer,but i don't know what to do i still love him some much not only for the love i have for him but for the children sake,how can some one from no were come into my house to ripe were she did not sold,i surf erred with my husband to get every thing we got today i came to think about it and i said to my self no i can't let go just like that,i have always hard of a spell caster he have helped meaning of my friend to get there love once back and help then in different area were they are having problems,so i contacted him online and i share my problems with him he helped me out and my husband later come back to me with love and care just as before,once again thanks to DOCTOR SAKURA if you need his help contact him with this email: sakuraspelltemple@gmail.com he can help you to solve any of your problems okay.

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  130. Its a real miracle temple. Wao! Till today i still imagine how Lord Lugard made me rich and famous..I'm Miss Carol Donald. from Moore-park. before i met this man on the internet, i was very poor, and cannot even afford my daily living. until i encountered Lord Lugard who help me with his miracles, and today i am a rich and famous woman, and he helped me too in getting my husband who divorced me some months back to my life.. I don't know how best to express my feelings and my appreciations to Lord Lugard the miracle worker.. i wanna say thank you FOR YOUR MIRACLES IN MY LIFE. if you need help in urgent money or you want any help from him, no need to die in silence or borrow anymore. why not contact him, and let him help you out..here is his email adress..miracletemple@live.com. And he is also a specialist in all kind of problems.. SUCH AS BRINGING BACK YOUR LOST LOVER. OR YOU NEED A CHILD, OR WANT TO JOIN OR BECOME A MEMBER OF THE ILLUMINATI. he told me to tell you that he is always there to help you, just the same way he did my own. And if you think you do not believe in miracles, why not give him a trial! Thanks to you Lord Lugard the miracle worker... miracletemple@live.com.

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  131. sorry your link to your journal doesn't work im really interested in reading it can any one help please ?

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  132. HI My Name is Jennifer , I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called dr ABULU of( abuluspiritualtemple@yahoo.com has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost family to me with his great spell, I was married to this man called James we were together for a long time and we loved our self’s but when I was unable to give he a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get he back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email abuluspiritualtemple@yahoo.com) then you wont believe this when I contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back and after a month I miss my month and go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother a baby girl, thank you once again the great ABULU for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through this same kind of problems you can contact he today on his mail (abuluspiritualtemple@yahoo.com or his website, http://abuluspiritualtemple.webs.com and he will also help you as well.

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  133. i am miss Tracy from UK, two weeks ago i and my boyfriend had a conflict, so with that he broke up with me saying he no longer wanted to associate with me anymore, i never knew he was interested in working out his marriage with another girl, i was helpless because i loved him so much more than myself, after begging and pleading with him I realized it was out of my hands, he really was leaving me, i could not stay without him, i tried to figure things out with him but he is not listening me, he told me that he is no longer interested that i should look for someone else, i tried all my best but things were not working out, so i had no choice than to look around for help, i went into search of spell caster to help me bring him back to me with the help of spell and after searching i actually finalize to work with (ukosespelltemple@yahoo.com) in regards of my lover. after 3 days as he told that my lover will return. my lover returned in surprising way, i was chocked and was so happy I can’t say how much I’m grateful, My lover not only came back to me, but has left his other girl and now has engaged me, we are getting married next month, I don’t know what I would have done without this spell caster you can contact him today on.ukosespelltemple@yahoo.com. is spell is for a better life.

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  134. My ex-boy dumped me 4 months ago after I accused him of seeing another woman and insulting him.I want her back in my life but she refused to have any contact with me. She changed her line and email address. I was so confuse and don't know what to do. So I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimonies of how a this powerful spell caster help them to get their ex back. So I contact the spell caster whose name is Dr trust and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 2days that my ex will return to me, and to my greatest surprise the Second day my ex came knocking at my door and i immediately pleaded and ask her to forgive me. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that,i was awarded a contract of 5 Million Pound for 4 years. Once again thank you Dr trust,you are truly talented and gifted. Email: { UILTIMATESPELLCAST@GMAIL.COM }. He is the only answer. He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing his good work because people are still talking about him on the Internet and Radio Stations. His Phone number is +2348156885231. : England

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  135. Hello, my is janet live in the usa,
    and I want to give a million thanks
    to duduba the great spell
    caster,he brought my soulmate
    back to me.. I was lost when mitch
    who him and was surpose to get married left me and our son. I
    thought that my world was at
    the end, I tryed other spell
    caster but all they wanted was
    my money that I didnt have to
    give, but I wasnt giving up I know theres got to someone who can
    really bring my love back to me
    and we live happy and in love for
    enity like we are surpose to.
    When I found dudubath was wow
    he really is the best so im letting everyone know youvhave a lost
    love you know that you are
    surpose to be with contact dudubabathespellcaster@gmail.com and let him help you. He did for
    me and now my family is back
    together.




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  136. dr dudu recently brought my fiancée back to my life, after we have been composed for 8years. We have stayed living favorably without any delinquent. I always converse about matrimony with her but she replies me with, And promise me that we will soon get married. I was shock on a faithful day when she called me and told me that she is no longer interested in the relationship, because she met another guy, and they were almost getting married. I was stunned and dizzy after hearing that from her. I was so drained and tried to get back to myself because deprived of her it was dreadful because I truly love her with the whole of my emotion. Until I was fixed up to dr dudu whose email is dudubabathespellcaster@gmail.com I communicated with him and he guaranteed me that my wish will be settled unto me after 10 hours, and she told me to count on his words, and he gave me every purpose why I have not to worry any longer. So that was how dr dudu came into my marital life and fetched my girlfriend back to me after 10 hours as dr dudu guarantee me, and now here I am affirming of his virtoriuous works. And he also cast money spell for me that really well-ordered out for me. So I will recommend you to contact him once you are in need of magic spell. he is sincere and real to help you out.. dudubabathespellcaster@gmail.com Or call +2348189693148



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  137. I am sharing my testimony to everyone that has tried everything possible and had lost hope on how they can get their ex back, i want you all to know that their is one man called Dr dudu that work for me and after 1day of his spell brought my ex back to me without any delay, i am really happy now that we are together again and we are living happily with so much love and respect for each other, so i will advise everyone to ask for this same man's help so that you can be happy again and make your dreams and wishes you have with your ex come true just contact him via his email address dudubabathespellcaster@gmail.com he can help you without any delay

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  138. My name is Millard, my boyfriend and i have been together for over 5 years now, in the last few weeks i have been having problems with him, I do love this man a lot and do want to get married to him but at times i did feel a little confused about this and have wondered if he has been true to this relationship...until i found king daughter, who told me that he was not being true love with me..I later find out that he has been seeing his ex girlfriend I was devastated and did not know what to do, although I still loved him and could not see myself with anyone else, I did not want to lose him and king daughter assured me that they could help me with this problem, he told me about a spell caster called DR.Otumbar i decided to give it a trier so I contacted otumbarspellhome@gmail.com when i contacted him, he promise me that i will get back my boyfriend in the next three days i will not that convince cause i have not use anything call spell before, but real after three at night i heard my phone ring behold it was my ex boy who left me for another girl, i was so so surprise to seen his call then i remember the promise that DR Otumbar made to me, then when i picked the call he started begging for forgiveness i have no choice than to forgive, all thanks go to DR Otumbar who help me out, if not him nothing we have been done, please contact him now on: otumbarspellhome@gmail.com, he will help you out in any of your problem

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  139. My gosh, I am devastated about my bf going to jail, dont know how to handle it and I cant even believe this bs!!!!! Spellcasters are nothing but SCAMS that prey on people in desperate situations and have no business on this site! For real, it is very sad that these predators are on here trying to take advantage of sad, distraught people. Get a conscience!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  140. Hello readers My name is Jennifer such amazing a wonderful and powerful real spell caster that help me bring my husband back and win my luv, and also help me for a new job before three days . Don not be worried in any kind of problem you are facing today is for you to know this real spell caster that can help you out, DR Alex Okhiria. To Email him asemotaspiritualspelltemple@gmail.com, i was married to Stanley since six years having two kid for him, later on Stanley was behaving strange and not even caring for the family again even insist for a divorce i was confuse because i also lost my job, i dont no what to do i cry and cry every day because i love Stanley and i don't want to loose him, i cry to a friend of mine who introduce me to Dr Alex okhiria a powerful real spell caster who cast a spell for me before three days i got a new job, and my husband also come back to me he Neel down and started begging saying that i should forgive him it was just like a dream to me. TO Email OR CONTACT him asemotaspiritualspelltemple@gmail.com. Once again a very big thank to Dr Alex okhiria for his good worlk.

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  141. My name is Mercy and my ex-boyfriend dumped me 8 months ago after I caught him of having an affair with someone else and insulting him.I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don't know what to do, so I visited the INTERNET for help and I saw a testimony on how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problems to him..... he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my Walter came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you RE UNITING EX SPELL TEMPLE caster, you are truly talented and gifted contact his email: omonigholovetemple@gmail.com All thanks to the source of my happiness{ DR. FREEDOM}.





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  142. Dear Dr. Lametu, I just wanted to thank you for all your help and efforts with my situation with Chris. As you know, he broke up with me a few weeks ago and I found you and asked for your help. I had you cast a Return My Ex-Boyfriend Love Spell on our behalf and I have to tell you that I am very pleased with the final outcome! I'm happy to say, we are back together again after a few short weeks apart! I was so miserable without him in my life. You have made me so happy! I am ordering a Binding Love Spell right now to make sure we don't split up again! Thank you for all your hard work and attention to my serious problem! If you desire happiness contact Ancientspiritualtemple@gmail.com and you will definitely get which you have desired.

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  144. okorohomeofrefuge@yahoo.com, I contacted Dr Okoro in regards of my boyfriend.who was no longer wanted to associate with me anymore.He was interested in working out of marriage,after begging and pleading with him I realized it was because of another girlfriend,that he really was leaving me.My co-worker went threw a similar situation and told me that YOU had helped her. I cant thank you enough, I'm grateful she introduced me to YOU. After discussing the resolution with YOU, your get your boyfriend back spell has done more than what I expected. My boyfriend not only came back to me, but he had also totally left his other girlfriend for me and now we were engaged, we are getting married next month, I don't know what I would have done without YOU,I believe you are my guardian angel.Dr Okoro,I want to thank you & your gods for all that you've done for me since all these days.I'm thankful for all the time & effort you & your gods have put into my case.I am very happy and I will always be grateful sincerely,His email is okorohomeofrefuge@yahoo.com

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  145. I was crushed when my lover of three years left to be with another woman. I cried and sobbed every day, until it got so bad that I reached out to the Internet for help.And i saw a testimony of a spell caster who help a girl called michelle and i said let me give it a try so i contact him for help and he cast a love spell for me which i use in getting my love back and now i am a happy woman.Foe what you have done for me,i will not stop to share your goodness to people out there for the good work you are doing.I hope God blesses you as much as you have help me to get my Love back,visit him on ablelovespell@gmail.com,he is the only answer to your problems ablelovespell@gmail.com

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  146. I contacted you regarding your Return My Lover Love Spell last month. I just wanted to drop you an email to let you know that I was very pleased with the results. Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com

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  147. hello people outside the world my name is Carolyn I want to say that my lover left me in April. During one long month I have contacted many casters and bought almost ten spells without results. My ex wouldn’t contact me, wouldn’t answer my calls and emails. But I never lost hope because I knew we were soul mates. Dr.ancient cast the most wonderful spell for me 2 weeks ago and everything has changed since then. We are close to each other again and he is calling me many times everyday. Thank you Dr.ancient of ancientbeninshrine@gmail.com your help is very appreciated! I will keep in touch.

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  148. My name is Tracy watsen and i want to testify of the good work done by a faithful dr agba a spell caster. in my life i never thought there is such thing as spiritual intercession. my problem started nine months back when the father of my kids started putting up some strange behavior, i never knew he was having an affair outside our matrimonial home. it dawn on me on that faithful day 19th of April 21st 4:23pm when he came to the house to pick his things that was when i knew that situation has gotten out of hand and he then told me he was quitting the marriage which i have built for over five years, i was confused and dumbfounded i called on family and friends but to no avail. two months after i started having problem with my kids welfare rent-age and all of it, i really went through hell. until a day i was browsing on the internet and i happen to meet a spell caster i never believed on this but i needed my man back so i gave the spell caster my problem at first i never trusted him so i was just doing it but you know a problem shared is half solved after a week my husband called me telling me that he his coming back home and that was all. now we are living happily and i still do contact him on this email:agbaspellhome@live.c om

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  149. Greeting to any body that is reading my comment, All Thanks goes to dr.trust, i was married to my husband, and we were living fine and happy. it come to an extend that my husband that use to love and care for me, those not have my time again, until i fined at that he was having an affair with another woman, i try to stop him,all my effort was in-vain sadly he divorce me and went for the woman. he live me with two of our kids, i cry all day, i was in pains, sorrow and looking for help. i was reading a news paper, i saw how dr. trust help people with his love and reuniting spell. so i decided to contact him and explain my problem to him, he did a love spell that make my husband to come back to me and our kids and never think of the woman. this man is god sent to restore heart break and reunite relationship. may the lord be your strength and continue to use you to save people relationship and any problem they encounter contact him for help ULTIMATESPELLCAST@GMAIL.COM. i promise you that you, he will but a smile on your face and make you feel happy. good luck.

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  150. Hello, everyone my name is Lilian from Canada i never ever believed in spell until i meet a man called Dr upesa, who help me cast a spell that bring back my ex-lover who left me for one years before our marriage, His spells works beyond my imaginations and today i am happily married two kids and me and my [ex-lover] now husband are very happy more than ever before, what more can i say rather than to say thank you Dr upesa for been there for me, contact him today and your life will never ever remain the same his email is upesalovetemple@gmail.com

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  151. I am Alex Coleman and I’m American. I am so full of Joy today because of something I thought can never happen has happen in my life and I must share it with the world majorly because, it might give you that is reading, hope and maybe solution to whatsoever that might be your concern.
    Around Late-August, something happened at my working place that gave way to my out of work and as if that wasn't enough, I was charged for assault on one of my superiors in office which I never did but a set-up thing to tarnish my personality and record because I am black and was doing better than the whites in the company. When this thing happened, my family was in jeopardy as I couldn't cater the needs of the family, my children that once ate anytime they love to couldn't eat up to twice a day and I couldn’t pay their college tuition fee. I and the kids have to depend on the little income of my wife and it was a shame to me for I was supposed to be the bread-winner of the family. And still in those difficulties, I will have to go to court and paying visits to my lawyer for the sake of freedom.
    In all this, I was confused, frustrated and anytime I embark on searching for a new job, my offer is always turn down and that made me sick. I did all I could do just to make the company call me back and drop the charges but no way. Something pop my head on a certain day to visit internet for help and while I was surfing, I came across a website in which someone by name, George Merrick gave a testimony on how he was cured of weak erection that made his wife to desert him and how he became reunited with his wife through a powerful spell and magic lord on hoodoospellcasts@outlook.com and I said to myself “Maybe, this spell and magic lord can help me out of my problem” and I contacted him for help, immediately, he gave me a reply and assured me that I shouldn’t worry that my situation was one that shouldn’t weigh me down. Then he told me that before he could help me, that I need to provide some traditional recipes to consult and seek the attention of the gods of his ancestors to my aid.
    And the recipes, he enlisted to me and directed me to a hunter in Kenya to providing the recipes. At first, I were scared and afraid it might be crook but I remembered a friend of mine who was Ghanaian and then I told him about it and he understood my ordeal and told me he could help me with the recipes, that they were common in his country and then I told the great Dr. Esiendo about it and he said to me, “fine, tell your friend to go near a river and call out my name seven times with the recipes at hand; and then the recipes shall appear at my temple. I told my friend what this god said and he promised to do it and surprisingly, at dusk, I received email from Dr. Esiendo that the recipes were at the temple and I quickly call my friend and he told me he had done that which I requested him to do and I was happy.
    Later that day, Dr. Esiendo emailed me and told me he had completed the spell and he gave me instructions on what to do and I did as he instructed and to cut my testimony short, exactly a week, a letter of reinstatement back to work was sent to me by the same company that fucked my ass and charges were dropped. And amazingly, I was promoted and those that blackmailed me were demoted.
    Today, I cater for my family’s needs; my children are back to college and we are all happy.
    If not for Dr. Esiendo at hoodoospellcasts@outlook.com, I am not sure if I will be testifying now. Indeed, he’s a problem solver and a restorer of lost glory.
    Please if you’re experiencing some couple of shits now, don’t fail to contact Hoodoo magic lord, DR. ESIENDO because I am well-sure that if he could help me then he can help you.
    FARE-WELL

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  152. My Name is Betty. This is a testimony that i will tell every one to hear. i have been married for 10years and on the 8th year of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2years until came across a website were i meant a comment on how this man Dr. Stanley helped someone and i decided to give him a try to help me bring my Husband home and believe me i just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 3day as he have told me, i saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why i am happy to make every one of you having similar problem to met with this man and have your lover back to your self. His email address: drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail.com,

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  153. Pinkskyy*

    hi everyone my boyfriend and i have been together 6 years we have a son together he went to prison left me alone for my pregnancy.i love him he's my sons father he told me everything to melt my heart while he was in jail came out and walked all over me both good and bad times! well he's back in prison...saying he loves me he needs me...im falling apart .im so lost and confused.any advice guys.keep in mind i do love this guy im just so confused

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  154. It is so wonderful to hear that I am not as alone as I think I am. Reading all of these posts have made me cry and smile at the same time. My fiance went to jail on a Vop and is not facing 7-10. He has been a business owner for the past 5 years and although it is a successful business I am not able to run it without him and it cannot support us. We found out we were pregnant about 4 months before this all has happened and the thought of me being out here alone and pregant is crushing him. For the two years that we have been together he has been an amazing man. Providing, caring, and loving me. I feel that I owe it to him to be there for him not in this hard time. I know it kills him to be in there and be without his family. Now he will miss the birth of our child along with a few fundimental years of our babys life. I know our love is stong enough to survive this I truely believe this with my whole heart. It just gets harder everyday. I wish I knew how to cope with what is going on. It is just so sureal because we never thought our life would take a turn like this. I think this is Gods plan somehow for us. Its just nice to read these posts and see that other woman are as devoted as myself. It warms my heart and gives me hope. Thank you for that. You woman are my life line.

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  155. After 9 years in marriage with my hubby with 3 kids, my husband started going out with other ladies and showed me cold love, on several occasions he threatens to divorce me if I dare question him about his affair with other ladies, I was totally devastated and confused until a old friend of mine told me about a spell caster on the internet Dr. Trust who help people with the relationship and marriage problem by the powers of love spells, at first I doubted if such thing ever exists but decided to give it a try, when I contact him, he helped me cast a spell and within 24hours my husband came back to me and started apologizing, now he has stopped going out with ladies and he his with me for good and for real. Contact this great spell caster for your relationship or marriage problem at ultimatespellcast@gmail.com. Goodluck

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  156. micheal


    He brought back my ex,
    my name is micheal from america,i had a problem with my wife sometimes ago but never knew what the problem was,i tried to asked her but she refused to tell me what it was as time goes on i discovered she was having an affair with a friend of mine that happens to be my best friend,i was so sad that i never knew what to do next,during my search for a way out i met a friend of mine who had similar problem and introduced me to a man who helped him with his situation,on getting to the man i discovered he was a spell caster i was shocked because i have not had anything to do with a spell caster in my entire life so i tried to give this man a chance cos i never believed in spell casting as i thought it will not work for me but to my surprise i got
    positive results and i was able to get my wife back from him even after the spell caster did all i discovered my wife fell much more in love with me on like before so i was so happy that i never know what to do for him so i am using this opportunity to tell anyone having similar problem visit or contact prophetoyinbojesus@yahoo.com.....He will surely solve your problems temple of solution....

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  157. Diana


    My name is Diana I am from United States, I was I a relationship with Ben and we loved and cherished ourselves for 3 good years and every thing was going on smoothly but February 14, 2012 a day I can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because I answered a call from a guy that is asking me out for a date but I refused, and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and I begged him because I love him so much but he refused me I was so down cast and I felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back, a good job and favor in any of her endeavor but at first I was scared but I have to give this man a trial because I love Ben very much and I am not willing to loose him to any woman, so I ordered returning my love spell from this great spell caster that made me a happy woman again to say it all my ex came back to me with much love and a caring heart...i am testifying to this great spell caster AYELALA SHRINE. if you need his help you can contact him on solutiontemple7@gmail.com

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  158. After being in relationship with my husband for nine years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email is (LAVENDERLOVESPELL@YAHOO.COM } tel.+2347053977842) you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything.

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  159. Hello my name is Cecilia from USA, My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. I contacted you and after I explained you my problem. In just 3 days, my husband came back to us and show me and my kids much love and apologize for all the pain he have bring to the family. We solaed our issues, and we are even happier than before you are the best spell caster Dr ZAZA i really appreciate the love spell you castes for me to get the man back to my life i will keep sharing more testimonies to people about your good work Thank you once again at (zazalovespell@gmail.com). in case you are in any problem you can contact this man for help he is always there in his temple to help you solve your problem Contact Email is (zazalovespell@gmail.com).

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